So, my daughter is 3 and a half years old. She's been in daycare since she was 1, and they've been working with her on potty training for quite a while now. She's now in pullups, and wakes 95% of the time dry in the morning. I can usually get her to pee in the potty (pretty good success rate for not going in her pullup), but poop is a whole other story. She's only pooped in the potty a handful of times. Daycare is pushing me to start sending her in (and with) panties, but I've confirmed with them that she usually poops in her pullups there as well.

I kind of feel that until she's pooping more consistently in the potty, sending her in panties is just a recipe of a big, nasty disaster, and a lot of clothes are going to get ruined in the process. But they have done this a lot more than I have, and maybe switching to panties and knowing that pullups are no longer an option is the push she needs?

If you've potty trained, at what point did you switch to panties? I haven't tried the three day method because we're trying to sell our house, and I can't commit to being able to stay in my house for three days straight and not have a showing scheduled.

Thanks!