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Who makes more: you or hubby/SO?

  1. hreichard

    cherry / 159 posts

    I make more.

  2. mommacommaphd

    cherry / 149 posts

    I am the sole breadwinner in my family. I work full-time and my husband is the stay at home parent. I'm so jealous of him!

  3. lavender

    grapefruit / 4554 posts

    My husband makes more than me now that he took on a new job. But 6 months ago I was making slightly more.

  4. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    Hubby does since I'm a SAHM. But, when SAHM's start getting paid I'm sure my salary will finally be comparable to his!

  5. mrbee

    admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts

    When SAHM's start getting paid, will they also get overtime?

  6. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    I've read that SAHM's are worth 120-130k a year (I think overtime's included).

  7. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    If SAHM's are worth 120 - 130k, then I am worth more than what my husband makes.

  8. StbHisMrs

    pomegranate / 3329 posts

    My husband makes 3x more than I do. In a few years (5-7) I have the potential of taking over my boss's agency when he retires, then I will make more. For now when my husband gets laid off we really feel it. In his line of work lay off's happen frequently, especially right before the Holidays, he's getting ready to mark back up after a 3 month lay off.

  9. Mrs. D

    pear / 1852 posts

    I was making more when we first got together, but for the last few years he has, and likely will continue to, unless after baby comes I find a teaching job in a community where teachers are highly paid (which is likely if we DO move to Alberta next summer)

  10. cyneswith

    persimmon / 1202 posts

    I make enough to keep a roof over our heads and car/life insurance paid (retirement/disability). He makes enough to pay all the bills and put well over half of his income in savings. I'm FINALLY stable enough health-wise to work, so soon I may be making half as much as he does.

  11. McSarah

    pea / 20 posts

    I used to make more, but then he got a much better job, and now he makes bit more. We both do ok though, I'm an engineer and he's a chartered accountant! Down the line he'll probably make substantially more than me because he's the career driven one

  12. MsMini

    grapefruit / 4056 posts

    We are actually pretty equal in our incomes, but if I were to go back to working full time, I would make more.

  13. Mrs.anniebo

    pea / 24 posts

    I make more on the hour but only work 12-24 hrs. a week. He works a full 40 , so he brings home more. I interviewed for a job that I would enjoy much more , and if I get it (fingers crossed!) I would be taking a significant pay cut, but get 40 hours a week. Then we would be bringing home exactly the same.

  14. MH.Abroad

    kiwi / 686 posts

    We have a shared salary, since we work as a team for non-profits. We do about the same amount of work - he does more teaching and translating and I do more writing and paperwork.

  15. themcmom

    apricot / 260 posts

    Since he's in grad school, I make more, but, if he was working, he'd make more. English degrees don't usually mean high paying job.

  16. skibobrown

    pomegranate / 3388 posts

    He makes more right now, but not by a ton. That will probably flip in the near future to me making more. In the long run, it is unclear who will be the true "breadwinner", since the salary prospects in both of our fields are about equivalent.

  17. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    I make more than him, but not by much. If he got paid as regularily as I do I'd say we'd be pretty even.

  18. plantains

    grapefruit / 4671 posts

    I make 2x what he does, that is what he gets for being a teacher:)

  19. SAHM0811

    grapefruit / 4049 posts

    DH has always made 2-3x as much as me. I am a SAHM for now, but we have talked about a plan where I go back to work in about a year and be the breadwinner while he works on building his own business. I do look forward to that!

  20. Sunshine1810

    pear / 1556 posts

    DH makes about $20k per year more than I do.

  21. musicbox611

    pea / 20 posts

    I make about 4x what my DH does. It drives him insane. He's up for a huge promotion soon which is great, because I'm starting to feel guilty!

  22. Rescuemom10

    pear / 1965 posts

    I tech make more. But DH is Military, so if you include all his benefits (and mine included because I am his dependant) med/dental, fly pay, housing etc... well then he makes more.

  23. MrsLMA

    cherry / 167 posts

    DH makes about 3x what I do but works COMPLETELY on commission- IMO, the added stress of comission only positions entitiles him to more $$:)

  24. lilteacherbee

    cantaloupe / 6791 posts

    I'm a teacher, so DH definitely makes more. In 1-2 more years, he will likely make 3x as much as I will.

  25. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    DH makes more, we work in the same industry but he's a comission based sales person, and I'm on a salary. Greater risk = greater reward and luckily he's an amazing salesman. I'd say it's like 65/35.

  26. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    Hubby always made more and now he is the sole bread winner.

  27. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    DH makes more than 3x my salary - that's what happens when a social worker marries an engineer! Works out well for us though as I am no longer working and will be a SAHM once our little bub arrives.

  28. Beyond2

    pear / 1517 posts

    I make more and my job has all the benefits, while his offers no benefit options. It's tough because we'd really like me to be able to stay home with our future children

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