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The majority of our bills are on autopay. The ones that aren't go out from whoever sees the bill first and makes out the check.

We both use our joint account to send various payments.

I kind of don't like our split right now--I wish DH would just make all the payments. He has all the autopay ones, and I have the weird ones that are one offs (like random medical bills that are one offs, like paying a medical supply company for a nebulizer, or paying a place for blood tests). And the problem is that I'm forgetful and I suck at remembering the deadlines, so I often end up paying a late charge. But Dh is super responsible and would never pay something late, so I wish he would just do them all. Unfortunately, he doesn't want to.

I pay all of our bills. I also do all of the spending (groceries, clothing, etc). I manage everything. My DH isn't a big spender/shopper so he might spend $10-$50 a month on himself, if that.
I don't have the utilities on autopay because I like doing them all on one day (online- no checks being sent) and I record down each bill every month so I can track them (for electricity, water, gas) to look at my averages. I do mine on the 1st each month along with my mortgage. Most of my other bills do autopay (student loans, daycare, life insurance, gym).

DH doesn't have really anything to do with the money! He runs his own business so he has enough on his plate (and those finances to manage). Plus, I like being in control.

We actually have separate accounts and then a joint. But my husband pays the bills from my account with money he puts in. And then we save on his account and the joint account is just for whatever.

I do, 100%. I'm honestly not sure he even has login info for our bank accounts online. He's perfectly happy to not see any of it, and I'm perfectly happy to have a handle on it myself so nothing gets lost in the mix.