cantaloupe / 6730 posts
Yup. I was breastfed until 4 months. Then her mom said she didn't have to anymore, so she stopped. For my sister, she decided that was stupid, so she breastfed her for 6 months and then quit. My littlest sister was breastfed until 9 months and she quit because she didn't want to be breastfeeding on vacation. And once she quit, we went straight to cow's milk and apparently didn't have any problems digesting it. I hope my LO has my family's strong stomach!
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
Nope, she went straight to formula as soon as both my sister and I were born.
nectarine / 2964 posts
No!!! Grrrrr.
I was born C-section. And I wasn't sure what is exactly the reason my mom thought she couldn't breastfeed or something because she had a c-section? I can't remember why. She said when her milk came in she had soooo much, and she thought about trying but she was afraid the meds that she got from delivering c-section (pain meds and what not) will be passed onto the baby. She didn't even bother to ask the doctor to give her meds that are OK for breastfeeding. So I was 100% formula fed.
Besides, back then the culture was formula was better than breast milk anyway.
nectarine / 2765 posts
All 5 of us were exclusively bf'd. Since there's some years between my three younger siblings I remember clearly her making it look very easy. Eeek. I'm hoping to get even a smidgen of her bf skillz.
pear / 1554 posts
I was breastfed and my little sister was formula fed. My mom said she couldn't get me off her boob long enough to do anything for over a year and I wouldn't go to anyone else but her. She didn't want to deal with that again so she formula fed my sister from the get go.
coconut / 8234 posts
Nope. We were all formula fed from birth. I don't think breastfeeding was on her radar, she was telling me about all the advice she got to help her milk dry up.
My mom is supportive of breastfeeding but not passed 1 (I still nurse my 14 month old 2x a day)
DH was breastfed, I think for 3 months.
nectarine / 2132 posts
nope. my mom was 17 when she had me and i don't think she even thought about bfing. so whenever i start to feel super guilty about having to ff my lo, i just remind myself that i turned out ok...
pomelo / 5093 posts
My mother breastfed me until 3, and her partner EBF'd both of her children past a year. My mother in law EBF'd both of her children. My husband's godmother (80 years old, now) breastfed hers, too. I come from a very long line of amazing women who worked hard to breastfeed their children, and I feel so lucky. Both my sister and I are breastfeeding our toddlers, and we're really proud to carry on the tradition.
All of those relatives also naturally birthed (even the 80 year old!!), so I feel really lucky to have such amazing role models.
honeydew / 7589 posts
My mom BF'd both of us, four years each.
MIL BF'd her three kids for two years each.
squash / 13764 posts
Yup she breastfed me and my sister for 9 or 10 months while working/pumping full time!
pear / 1787 posts
No. When I've asked her about it in the past she said she just wasn't interested (though I'm not entirely sure what that means).
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
My mom bf'd me for a month, my brother not at all. I think she really struggled with supply from the beginning for me, so she just didn't want to do that again and went straight to formula.
My mil bf'd both her babies, and honestly, I felt pretty judged by her on my choice to switch to ff in the throes of ppd. My mom on the other hand was supportive of my trying to bf, and supportive when I knew I had to stop. Because of this, even though mil was helpful when dd was a newborn, I think I'll be spacing myself from her the next time around.
@jmarionsmith: me too, well my mom wasn't 17, but the other part.
@irene: why grr? I hope dd doesn't resent me for not bf'ing her (long.)
honeydew / 7283 posts
I was BF for 3 months, my younger siblings for shorter periods of time. DH and his three brothers were all born at home and all EBF. Wow.
eggplant / 11824 posts
My mom bf my brother and I both for about/over a year each. She had pain meds with my birth and birthed my brother all natural and she never encouraged or discouraged bf (I ff), never judged and did NOT want me to push for a vaginal delivery. She was relieved when I told her i was having a c-section. So, thankfully no judgement even though my experience is very different from hers!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
My mom gave us formula from the beginning. I think my MIL BFed some, but gave mostly formula.
nectarine / 2964 posts
@googly-eyes: Grrrrr - yes I was a bit resentful my mom didn't even try! It is not because her milk didn't come in (she had PLENTY she said), or had any issues at all, but because she *thought* she shouldn't breastfeed and she didn't even ask a doc. In a way I can't blame her because formula feeding was the norm back then. I always think maybe I will be healthier and smarter now if I were breastfed, instead of picking up every single virus and germs every flu season. But that may not be true because LO got breastmilk for 10 months of his life (EBF for the first 7 months) and he's still the weakest baby ever.
DH's mom didn't breastfeed them (3 sons) because she was busy working, and she had little help on childcare. That is a good reason. My mom didn't even have that...! (I was her only child, and she was a SAHM)
You daughter won't resent you - you gave me the impression that you did try just that it didn't work out. Now you make me wonder what happened
pomegranate / 3872 posts
I was breastfed for over two years and my brother weaned himself at just over a year. My mom is very pro-breastfeeding. My husband and his siblings weren't breastfed and none of his nieces and nephews were either. I have no idea why.
pomegranate / 3452 posts
My mom said I was breastfed until 6 months, and then apparently I 'decided I didn't like it any more" ...
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
Oh this reminds me.... my grandmother and I were talking the other day and she said that she breastfed my dad but the doctors kept telling her that she should use formula. She said that people told her it was disgusting to BF. One time her nephew was staying with her and he was formula fed but very collicky. He wouldn't stop screaming for hours and finally she breastfed him and he slept straight for 5 hours afterwards. She was very proud of herself
She also had her babies naturally and she had to fight for this. If you ever watched The Business of Being Born, you'll remember how they said it was vogue to use twilight sleep medicine and the mothers wouldn't remember anything. She said they would just put you out and then go in and get the baby with forceps. She told them she wanted to push the babies out and her doctor was appalled. But they let her. Go Nana!
(All that being said, I am all for you gotta do what you gotta do, and there is no shame in having meds, needing to ff etc. but I love that she kept fighting for what she thought was right!)
honeydew / 7909 posts
My mom only had me and formula fed. She's not even fond of the fact that I want to BF.
pear / 1570 posts
My mom did not BF the first three of us, then with her fourth she did for about 6 weeks and then felt like it was too much. I always commend her that she (finally!) tried it and we now laugh that she made it through the toughest part!
She didn't really understand my desire to nurse at first but is now very supportive and SO PROUD. I think she tells everyone that I am still nursing my LO.
MIL did not BF either of her babies and doesn't seem to mind that I do. She hasn't been a support person persay but she hasn't been negative either.
grapefruit / 4800 posts
Yeah all four of us were, I'm not sure how long, I think close to a year. I don't quite understand her logistics though. She worked part time and never pumped any milk and after the first couple months she didn't wake up much at night to nurse. But she said we were never given any formula. I think we started solids pretty early though.
pomelo / 5093 posts
@travellingbee: That is a seriously hilarious story. I'd like to attribute my daughter being totally chill to breastfeeding, but I think it's mostly her personality.
cherry / 190 posts
My mom tried BF for about a month but had a ton of issues (bad latch, inverted nipples, low supply, etc.) She had zero support, at that time in Russia there was no such thing as LC, breast pumps or even books on BF. All she had was doctors that would yell at her for "killing your baby!" because I wasn't gaining weight.
So I went on formula that gave me terrible rashes apparently. They didn't have much choice since even getting any formula at that time was difficult. Most babies would go on cow's milk or kefir if mom couldn't BF.
She is still upset that she wasn't able to BF and was my biggest supporter when LO was born. She still comments about how I have to keep going until at least 2 (in a totally supportive way that I appreciate).
nectarine / 2667 posts
My mom bf me, my sister, and brother but only for a little bit (I don't know how long? 6-8 weeks? Or maybe 3-4 months?) and then we got formula.
My mom & aunts don't discourage my breastfeeding, but they're not too helpful either. Every time I bring up an issue, they suggest formula & are cautioning me against teeth because I'll "have" to stop. I asked my mom if she had a problem with it, but she said she only suggests weaning/formula because its "easier". And she looked pretty confused when I mentioned letting my son wean himself.
clementine / 984 posts
I know all 4 of us were BF. I distinctly remember sitting in my child's rocker next to my mom with my doll stuck up my shirt while she was feeding my brother. I'd also stick the pump on my non-boobs to see what would happen. Lol! No idea how long she BF each of us, though, and no idea on what MIL did with DH.
nectarine / 2973 posts
I was formula fed from the start. My mom didn't want to bf and thought that it was gross. I dont think really anyone has bf in my family, at least not for very long. My family isn't exactly unsupportive of me bf but it's never really talked about. I actually don't even know if they know that I'm EBF haha
grapefruit / 4120 posts
My mom BFed me for almost two years. (in the late 70s). She is super pro-BF, LLL and all that, and I am so pleased that she did that for me and is supportive of my BFing my kids. I can't imagine how hard it must be to have all that disapproval that some of you describe from your own moms. Props to you for getting past that.
grapefruit / 4823 posts
Nope! She didn't even try. She said they gave her a pill to dry up her milk. She said she had no interest whatsoever to even try. She said she gives me and my SIL a lot of credit for even trying.
nectarine / 2163 posts
I was BF for 6 months, then given formula because she got sick of the nipple shield, but i wouldn't nurse without it
she then EBF my twin sisters for 12 months and my brother for 12 months after that.
she was very supportive of me BFing, but not pushy. when i was almost ready to switch to formula early on, she was equally supportive of that
persimmon / 1304 posts
Yep, she BF me until 9 mos when she said I apparently weaned myself(?)... And my sister until a year. She got a lot of crap from family for choosing to EBF. I am grateful that she is so supportive of my decision to BF!
I am pretty sure MIL FF both DH and SIL...
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
No and I turned out just fine (kidding, kidding. I wish she did).
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
She breastfed my bro for three months but just couldn't deal with pumping when she went back to work. She breastfed me for six months and honestly I'm really impressed with her because apparently it was very painful for her every time I latched.
kiwi / 500 posts
My mom says that she attempted to bf all
Of us but we were all pretty stupid at latching! So she gave up and bought us up on formula. When I put my kids on my breast a few minutes after they were born and they latched immediately she was shocked that they knew
How to latch right out of the womb.
pear / 1571 posts
My mom has the same condition I have, Insufficient Glandular Tissue, but didn't know it and attempted to EBF all 10 of her children. I'm the oldest and I think she went about the longest with me, 6 weeks. That's when I reached my birth weight. Then the rest of the kids were a short period of EBFing, then supplementation, then straight formula or other alternatives. Her mom and sister had similar success. It's kind of a hard thing to in our family, apparently. But she's still a huge proponent and thankfully I'm the only one of the daughters to have inherited the condition so far, as the two other sisters who have kids have had plenty of milk and are able to nurse their kids quite easily.
nectarine / 2771 posts
My mom breastfeed both me and my brother for 7-8 months. She pushed through low supply, latch issues, and severely cracked/bleeding nipples for us. Everyone around her told her to just let it go and put us on formula, but she steadfastly refused. Now, as an EBF mother myself, I'm grateful for what she did!
persimmon / 1147 posts
My mom did for varying lengths of three to six months with the three of us. Despite having BFed us she totally doesn't understand why I am now( at 10.5 months) and how I want to get to a year plus. She is constantly offering to take DD for the night or a full day.
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