Mr. Lime's oldest God child is turning 7 and she just became a big sister. We are planning to get her an American Girl Doll. Mr. Lime suspects with a new baby in the house his friends wouldn't splurge on a pricey doll plus he swears AG dolls are not a thing.

So many of you write about how you feel robbed when someone else gives your kids certain items, and I know for me getting my first AG doll was a big deal. Do you think we should just gift the doll (one in her likeness) and an extra outfit? Or run it past her parents?