Curious what your thoughts are.

DH's close friend is getting married this summer a couple months after I'm due. The bachelor party planning has been somewhat disorganized and they keep changing dates for when it should be. They are planning a guys weekend over 8 hours away so DH has tried pushing for dates that would be at least a couple weeks after delivery. I guess those no longer work and they are trying for early May when I'll be just over 38w pregnant. I really want DH to be able to go, but he's pretty nervous he could end up missing the birth. This is our second, and I was two days over with my first. But, once I hit about 6cm, she came very quickly after. I have no reason to think I'd go early, but I know it can happen.

How would you guys feel about this? Any recommendations?