I've been reading lists of recommendations and it just feels like SO MUCH. I'm fine with the clothes and toiletries and snacks and chargers etc. But there is a lot of big stuff that is recommended and I'm wondering if everyone really takes it/if it is really necessary. Primarily:

Pillows (one for each of DH and I + my body pillow)
Blanket for DH (do they really not provide one/it sucks?)
Towels (one for each of us)
Boppy (so big! am I REALLY going to need it for the 24 hrs I'll be there?)

We'll have 2 carry-on suitcases (one for me, one for DH/LO) and the towels at least fit in there. But if we take everything else we'll have the 2 carry-on suitcases + blanket + 2 regular pillows + body pillow + boppy?! It just feels like too much and I'm worried we're going to look insane with all that stuff haha.