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Did your parents suggest names for your LO?

  • poll: Did your parents suggest names for your LO?
    Yah, they suggested some first names : (56 votes)
    41 %
    Sort of, they suggested some family names to be incorporated into a first name or middle name : (11 votes)
    8 %
    They offered opinions on the names we brainstormed : (37 votes)
    27 %
    They didn't suggest any names at all, or weigh in on what we came up with : (32 votes)
    23 %
    Other (please explain) : (2 votes)
    1 %
  1. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    My dad had ideas (horrible) my ILs didn't say anything at all.

  2. Sapphiresun

    nectarine / 2220 posts

    Yep. Our baby actually wasn't named for a week after she was born, so by that point everybody was throwing out names, haha.

    But I thought it was fun during pregnancy, just as a discussion. Didn't mind at all if people made suggestions. However everybody thought we were just hiding our chosen name when we said we hadn't decided and wanted to meet him or her, and get to know our baby a bit before choosing.

  3. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    My mom and I talked about names about a year before lo was conceived/before ttc bc dh and I already had names picked out. She liked our pick but also suggested some other names, but it was a pretty light conversation since it was all hypothetical then!

  4. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    @Mrs. Lion: same. We never opened it up for discussion. Period.

  5. Mrs. Tiger

    blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts

    My FIL actually told is to change DS2's name to one that honored his personal (Hindu) saint when he was born with so many complications. I said if the saint wanted to look after him he'd do it even if they didn't share a name.

  6. Ms.Pumpkin

    apricot / 435 posts

    Apparently my Mom had written down some possible names, but never shared them with us. After we had settled on the name, she said that her #1 pick was so similar that she was pretty happy.

    I have to say that I'm glad she didn't share them with us, as it was really nice to go through the naming process together as a couple with DH.

  7. rins72

    coffee bean / 39 posts

    We had our girl name picked out pre-conception, so they didn't weigh in on that. We're undecided on a middle name. My mom has made a couple of suggestions and given input on our choices.

  8. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    My mom was adamant we name our DD1 Violet. Not a bad name, but she wouldn't back down!

  9. MrsBananaGrabber

    apricot / 309 posts

    "Suggest" is putting it lightly. We're only TTC right now (which our parents don't even know), but my mom has been advocating for names she likes since before we were married.

  10. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    My mom did not like T's name. She suggested a name from Duck Dynasty. I said heck no.

  11. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    My parents chose the kids' Korean names. My mom suggested a name for DS. Lucky for her, it was my #1 choice

  12. makemake

    olive / 63 posts

    They wouldn't dare.

  13. HeartAbandoned

    clementine / 933 posts

    We settled on names before we told our families we were pregnant. We haven't announced them yet - we're waiting to know the gender, then we'll say, "Our baby's name is _________". I think that has prevented the option for suggestions!

  14. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    My MIL suggested some terrible names!!! Tee hee, I'm still laughing at Cybil!

  15. MoonMoon

    pomegranate / 3392 posts

    @Cherrybee: oh sad, my name is Cybill, I've always loved it!

    (kidding, kidding, my name totally is not Cybill )

  16. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    @MoonMoon: Very good point, someone here is bound to have a daughter called Cybil now I've said that! Me and my big gob again!!

  17. MoonMoon

    pomegranate / 3392 posts

    @Cherrybee: ack, I didn't mean to make you feel bad, I was just kidding! We all have names that we'd never consider for our kids. I know that many of my personal favorites are not popular, I take no offense. I also did not want our parents' input on our LO's name.

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