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My kids have really different personalities! In a nutshell, DD1 is higher energy, stronger personality, generally less easy going, and has always had a harder time sleeping, but a super early talker and incredibly bright. DD2 has thankfully been much more laid back from about a week or two old, has been easier going with sleep and generally more go with the flow- but she isn't talking anywhere near as much as DD1 was at this age. Even in looks- DD1 looks so much like DH (and gets her stubborness from him) and DD2 looks like me and is more similar to me personality wise.

Funny enough, they both started walking at almost exactly the same age- 13 months. They are 4.5 and 2 years old.

My kids are pretty young- 28mo and 10mo but they have been VERY different so far

DS (28mo): very outgoing, was very quick with all his milestones (full walking by 10mo, talking a lot early on etc), is very friendly with strangers, good sleeper, doesn’t stop moving (hated to be held as a baby because he wanted to roll around, crawl, now run)

DD (10mo)- VERY introverted, high stranger anxiety (has never been able to be held by anyone but me and DH), on the slower end for milestones (slow to crawl, at 10mo is just now pulling up but not standing), when with me she is very chill- would be held all day if I would let her. So opposite from DS

It will be interesting to see how they grow

DS1 is 3.5. A bit high strung/emotional, introverted, easily overstimulated, very inquisitive, crazy good memory, higher sleep needs, extremely routine driven. Loud, verbal, tenacious. Loves music. Tall, skinny, not a big eater, but eats a good variety. Dark hair.

DS2 is 22 months. Very happy and sweet, but has that honey badger streak. He doesn’t care what people think, he just does what he wants. Not really sure if he’s introverted or extroverted - probably leans towards a more social introvert in that he doesn’t get as overwhelmed in social situations as DS1, but really could care less about being around people. He doesn’t enjoy being alone as much as DS1. Overall he’s more laid back - if he is tired, he doesn’t have a complete meltdown like DS1. Loves to eat, but hates vegetables and eats a select variety of fruit. Mostly wants carbs. Light hair, lower sleep needs. Loves books. Disciplining doesn’t work as well for him because again, he does what he wants.

Mine have very different personalities and love languages! My oldest's (5yo) love language is definitely words of affirmation. He's easy going and he's willing to try anything once and praise is the best way to get him to do stuff! My youngest's (3yo) love language is physical touch. He loves hugs and snuggles and just being held or sitting in your lap. And he is STUBBORN! He has to do everything himself! Potty training was when this really showed itself! I couldn't help him or encourage him or anything! I had to just sit back and let him figure it out on his own! He's also very independent. Even as a baby, he would be perfectly happy doing his own thing. My oldest was always clingy and constantly wants attention, but my youngest doesn't seem to care about that at all!

It is so fun to watch them grow up and see their personalities emerge.
DS (3) was a horrible sleeper and still is. DD (1) started out a great sleeper, a little less so now but hopefully we'll get there again.
They were both early on physical milestones, but DD is so quiet, DS had 3 words by now and DD barely has 1, she's never been a babbler.
DS has always been top of the charts and DD is nearer the bottom.
DS was sick a lot his first year, 4 or 5 ear infections. DD had 2. I would probably think it'd be opposite since DS exposes her to all his germs.
DD is a cuddler which I love.

Let's just say that I know exactly how DS2 will react to things b/c it is the opposite of how DS1 reacted. Which sucks b/c DS1 was generally an easy going kid. .. .

Lo1 is very outgoing and friendly, loves making new friends and trying new things.
LO2 is cautious of new situations, especially when LO1 is not around. Needs more love and affection. Has always had major separation anxiety.
LO3 More like LO1 but can be demanding for affection like LO2. Great at independent play and also loves trying to be like LO1&2.

DD1 - Very smart, more serious, very cautious

DD2 - I wouldn't say not as smart but she doesn't have as many words as DD1 did at the same age. But her level of comprehension and also her physical skills are better. Def more social, adventurous/fearless