I didn't, until today!
I'll post the answer later but in the meantime... do you know the difference?
I didn't, until today!
I'll post the answer later but in the meantime... do you know the difference?
grapefruit / 4400 posts
Envy is wanting something, and jealousy is being afraid of losing something, right? Like... I envy JLo's booty and I'm jealous JLo will start to flirt with my husband or summat?
hostess / papaya / 10540 posts
Ya know, without cheating I don't think I could explain the difference.
bananas / 9628 posts
if i had to guess- and honestly i have to reason other than this is the feeling i get, it's that envy is a desire to have something someone else has, jealousy is to wish you had something instead of the person who has it. now that i've made me guess i'm gonna go ask google! =P
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
I think so? I rarely envy or get jealous though..
Share your story, yo!
coconut / 8681 posts
@mrs. bird: I think that’s a good guess. I was thinking along those lines too.
Now tell us Mr. Bee!!! Please
cantaloupe / 6146 posts
Huh. I always used them interchangeably even though they aren't the same. Oops!
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
Here are a two different takes on the difference, from around the web!
1) Envy is coveting something (or someone) that somebody else has; jealousy is wanting something (or someone) that somebody else has but you think belongs to you. It's the feeling of being dispossessed.
http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheDifferenceBetweenEnvy-Jealousy/dnppk/post.htm
2) One difference between jealousy and envy involves the relationship between the jealous or envious person and his or her rival. An envious co-worker may develop a personal resentment towards a promoted co-worker because the position represents a higher salary and more responsibility. The true source of this envy is rarely the co-worker himself or herself, but the perceived value of the position. The co-worker may very well deserve the advancement because of his or her superior skills or education, but an envious person might become angry at himself or herself for not possessing those qualities.
Jealousy, on the other hand, focuses on the rival himself or herself, not necessarily the object or "good" at the center of the conflict. Jealousy implies a closer relationship between the jealous person and his or her rival. Instead of a promotion, the co-worker may start a romantic relationship with the jealous person's secret office crush. Because this rivalry is personal in nature, the target of the jealous person's resentment and anger is not necessarily the unattainable romantic partner, but the more attractive rival who now stands between them.
Jealousy is almost exclusively a negative emotion, while envy can has some positive effects, such as a renewed interest in self-improvement.
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-the-difference-between-jealousy-and-envy.htm
coconut / 8299 posts
Ah. Makes sense! I would say I rarely get jealous but do get envious from time to time, especially of moms who get to stay at home with their kids... sigh...I hate being a working mom sometimes.
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