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we did cloth diapers and wipes for most of her diaper wearing time (did a newborn cloth rental the first time, but not going to bother with that this time and just do disposables until DD2 fits cloth). cloth wipes are super easy to make yourself (flannel or cotton!) and we just sprayed with diluted solution as we used them and then tossed the diaper and wipes into the same wet bag. easy peasy.

there are things that i thought i'd make myself and did for a while (laundry detergent, cleaning spray) and then i realized i didn't care as much and our budget allowed for me to buy as i went (not a lot of storage). if you're working FT and pumping for baby, milk bags for freezing are going to be best because otherwise you have to have that many bottles to put in the freezer, which seems crazy because i didn't work FT and i went had upwards of 40 bags of milk in my freezer at a time.

i used reusable nursing pads, but also disposable in the beginning because i was VERY leaky and needed more absorbency. i got milkies to collect milk from the side DD wasn't nursing from....

think i answered most of your questions, but we found as a newborn, DD didn't really add a ton to our laundry because her clothes were so tiny and CDing just fit in easily and her trash wasn't an issue either because of the CDing.

I use cloth except when traveling and my babysitter uses them too- I don't know what style you are planning on but I use pockets and leave them prestuffed for the sitter and it hasn't been an issue- the only thing that makes them different from disposables is the wash routine which I do myself so that limits the amount of time I have to truly use disposables. So I'd see if your caregivers are on board, it's easier than they probably think!

Instead of wipes I keep a squirt bottle of water at the changing table and spray her off with the diaper still under her to absorbe the water, and use a cotton ball or strip of cut up tshirt if need be. I only use wipes for outside the house so i buy them very rarely.

Do you have a clothesline? That helps with the extra laundry needs, at least you don't have to use the dryer as much.

Ive seen several brands of milk storage bags that are recyclable.

The breastmilk storage bags we use, Twist, are fully recyclable, and have adapters that connect to all the major pumps. You can also choose to feed directly from the bags, although we poor into Avent Natural bottles bc LO likes the nipples better.

We also do cloth all-in-ones and pocket diapers, and hang them to dry. We use cloth wipes at home with water only, and use disposable wipes when out, but that may change shortly. We also use disposable diapers at night, or when travelling far. We just got back from vacationing in New Zealand and used disposables the whole time. I know some people like Grovia because they are supposed to be travel-friendly, but I think you are still throwing a lot out.

We did cloth diapers but regular wipes, because the hassle of cloth wipes at daycare was too much for us. I'd think cloth wipes with grandma at home would be very easy. Also, if you're planning on letting grandma do disposable diapers, I think cloth will end up being a bigger hassle. Anytime we went "part-time" with our cloth diapers ended up bringing us a lot of grief. I didn't need nursing pads, but I'd imagine reusable ones work just fine. However, I agree with PPs about using bags over bottles for freezing milk. It's for a relatively short amount of time and it is infinitely easier. Being a full time WOH pumping mom (not to mention the added stress that pumping as a teacher can bring) is a challenge and you'll want to give yourself some grace in certain areas of your life. Plus, like @danda: mentioned, logistically it's a nightmare (if you use your freezer now for food, you'd have to dedicate so much extra space for all those bottles and there'd be a ton of added time for you/your husband for cleaning, defrosting, etc).
Babies don't have to equal tons more trash.

@DesertDreams88: we ended up not having "enough" diapers for a good wash schedule. We'd wash with too few or we'd wait longer between washes, but either way we'd get problems with getting them clean enough and I think laundry troubleshooting is the toughest part of cloth diapers. When we did full-time (minus nighttime, because our son was a heavy wetter and we did a disposable overnight), we kept a good wash routine and almost never had issues with ammonia or build-up. Also, I found that there was also a reason to use disposables for a "bit" (bad rash, vacations, etc), so if you plan to use disposables on the regular you may find you're using more than you'd like.

We are pretty similar to you folks, eco mindful and a bit gear minimalist, these are some things that we did:
- cloth diaper (highly recommend!!) and cloth wipes
- glass bottles (life factory ones were the nicest but the super cheap Evenflo ones worked great and fit my medela pump better too - pumped straight into them)
- froze into 4 and 8 oz mason jars with the screw on plastic tops to reuse until I realized I had an oversupply and just used milk bags I got in trade for donating my extra (though my first donation ended up being in the mason jars so lucky bonus for that mama!) and then just froze a bottle or two if I needed it
- stack of baby wash cloths for face/hand wiping after eating for BLW
- bamboobies nursing pad were great, only used disposable pads once, saved a lot since I leaked for months
- PnP with bassinet for in room sleeping for first few months and then now use the PnP for travel and our safe baby "jail" for play, helped keep gear down
- no swing, had a baby bjorn bouncer that we can still use due to the high weight limit, super simplistic, nice looking and folds up really slim, I just wasn't really into "baby containers" for the newborn stage
- lots of babywearing, Moby when young and now RS and Ergo, mostly Ergo, probably could have even skipped the stroller if I hadn't planned on trying to get back into running!
- BLW has been great to cut down on buying extra baby food for LO and she loves it
- we use a clip on high chair at the table to keep the bulky gear down and LO loves being at the table with us and we eat our meals together, also travels well!
- most of our clothes were gifts but we did get a few things from consignment
- nursery was decorated with gifts (crib) and Craigslist finds (glider, changing table dresser, etc)

That's all I can think of right now!

Oh, my sister is also earth conscious (environmental engineer) and she uses cloth diapers and cloth wipes. She said she only uses cloth wipes for wet diapers and disposal wipes for poopy diapers. Sometimes she put the wipes in the cloth diaper and it ends up in the wash. Sometimes she'll re-use them.