I feel a little lost on this whole baby to toddler transition, in terms of adding in whole milk, while not weaning from breastfeeding, how much solids vs breastmilk vs whole milk to be giving her...

Does any one have any good links or books or whatever to recommend?

C is almost 13 months. She still nurses 4 times a day, 3 solids meals a day. I have started offering whole milk at meals, which she is actually taking to surprisingly well (to the point that I got really scared she wouldn't want to nurse last night and had to remind myself that she IS growing up). I realize she will need to start getting more and more of her nutrition from sources other than breastmilk, even if we continue until she wants to wean herself. And ideally, we can get to the point where she doesn't *need* breastmilk if I'm away, but then do we just add a snack? a cup of milk?

I guess I'm babbling, but I don't have anyone IRL who really breastfed much past a year to talk about it with.

ETA: Our pediatrician is pretty laid back with all these things. Our conversation was pretty much- yes, you can start offering WCM. It's great that you are still breastfeeding! Keep up the good work, see you in three months.