So SIL is having a baby girl at the end of May. She lives in Florida and we live in NY. So we have RSVPed no because of this, co-ed shower. I have several hand-knit items for her that I had planned to send down when the baby was born. But after receiving the invite I feel like I should send a little something down for the shower as well. I know I'm not required to send a gift for the shower. DH also suggested we send the knit items down in between the shower and her due date. I'm not sure what to do and would love your ladies insight on this.