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How long did it take you to change your name after getting married?

  1. ineebee

    pear / 1580 posts

    I moved to a new state and had to register the car in order to get a city parking permit. Since I had to do all that, I wanted it to be in my new name, so I got started with the name change process pretty much right after we got back from our honeymoon.

  2. daniellemybelle

    cantaloupe / 6669 posts

    Glad I'm not the only one that dragged her feet! I started using my married name pretty quickly but it wasn't until I was pregnant, three years into our marriage, that I actually went to the SS office and got it changed. I had actually misplaced our marriage license and had to get a new one to do it! Then I changed my driver's license and from there I just did things as they came up - so when I went to the bank I let them know, etc.

  3. cascademom

    coconut / 8861 posts

    I waited six weeks after getting married to change my name and go through the process because we were buying our condo. All of our condo paperwork is in my maiden name. It's been almost 6 years and the one item I haven't changed is my Paypal account because they want to see your marriage license or something ridiculous like that.

  4. NCSUchick27

    clementine / 995 posts

    Once I started the process it only took me a couple of days. I went to the social security office one day, and the DMV the next day. It was way easier than I thought it would be.

    I waited about 3 months after we got married to start the process. I would have done it sooner, but I was busy moving and changing jobs.

  5. misolee

    persimmon / 1345 posts

    It took ab out 5 months for me to legally change my name and then like a month afterwards to get all my documents changed.

    I did not check the name change box for the marriage certificate. A year after I got married, my passport was expiring and since it's a ten year renew, I decided to just go ahead and change my name.

    First, I had to go file it in court and pay a filing fee. Then, the court had to publish it in a local newspaper for four weeks to make sure there wasn't any formal objections. So I had to pay another publishing fee. Then, I had to wait until my case made it into the court schedule and that took two months. Once it was on the schedule, I had to go wait through all the hearings until they got to mine. I was in the same court as uncontested divorces and name changes. When it was my turn, I stood in front of a judge and had to explain why I wanted a name change. After he allows it and signs the paper document, I had to pay another document fee to get a notarized copy.

    I then used the notarized copy to get a drivers license, social security, credit cards, passport, etc.

  6. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    Random question: if you change your name with Social Security, can you still hold your passport in a different name? It seems like a lot of people have done that but I was always under the assumption that both had to be in the same name as they are both legal proof of your identity....

    If it is possible to change my name with Soc Sec but not change the passport right now, I might do that as I'll be home later this year and could take care of that side of things then. My visa is due for renewal at the end of next year so I could do the passport/visa at that time I think.....

  7. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    I changed my name ASAP after I got married because I knew we would be moving abroad within a year or so, so I wanted to have everything taken care of. I did passport first, then driver license then SS card. I changed credit cards and bank accounts after I got my passport back. It took maybe 3 months total because I didn't want to be without proper ID while documents were processing.

  8. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    @Ree723: I did. I changed my SS to my married name, my passport (with visa at the time) was in my maiden name. I never had any issues and I was still able to file my taxes in the US as well as travel across the borders.

  9. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    I changed my name within the first year we were married. My process was a little trickier because I needed to have a full legal name change due to a mistake my parents made when I was born. I had to put it in the newspaper and go to court to tell my reasoning for the name change. Glad that I did it before LO1 was born because it was a bit of a hassle.

  10. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    I started the process four months after the wedding, it took a couple weeks to get doc sec dmv ccs etc all done. We'll be married five years this September and my Korean passport and my green card are still in my maiden name.

  11. Mrs D

    grapefruit / 4545 posts

    I started the process in June (got married in October) delayed because I had visa's for traveling that I did not want to have to re-apply for. I got everything done by October when I had to travel internationally again!

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