This is a hard post for me to write and I'm not really sure that any of you will be able to offer me any advice...

I think my husband has DE (delayed ejaculation). We've been together for eight years, and it always always takes him a long time to reach climax, if he does at all. He doesn't seem to mind, but now that it's almost time for us to start TTC, I'm scared we won't be able to get pregnant because of this issue. Often, we'll have sex and I'll climax, but he won't. I've read that most men can reach climax with 5-10 minutes of having sex, but this is almost never the case with my husband...

Has anyone had experience with this? Does anyone have advice? I've mentioned my concern to my husband, that his inability to orgasm will mean that we will never get pregnant, but he keeps telling me not to worry, and that when the time comes, we'll figure it out. But this has been an ongoing issue (at least for me) for years... I don't know what to do.