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My DH would laugh too and then try to comfort me lol.

He has def gotten better! He was so bad at it when we first started dating so it took a lot of communicating so that he understands what I need from him in terms of comfort and consolation.

Dh is also really bad at comforting me when I get hurt! If he hurts something, the whole world needs to stop (seriously-- he once got pissy w me and called his mother for sympathy instead when I apparently wasn't sympathetic enough when he stubbed his toe. His freaking toe.). But if I get hurt, I need to actively ask for help-- I've burned myself before and still had to google burn protocol myself, because when I asked him what to do he said he didn't know and went back to whatever he was doig. Siiiigh!

Just read this. haha. To make you feel better, my husband is HORRIBLE on "comforting". If I were in your situation, he'd say this: how could you have possibly done that. Why can't you be more careful? Why is there even a toy there in the first place? If you have picked it up this wouldn't have happened.

Took me many years to suck it up. Now I don't even say anything if I hurt myself and he's around. I know. I don't know what the heck is wrong with him too.

So..... feel better!

@.twist.: Haha D would have totally laughed at me! He would have then quickly made sure I was okay, but he totally would have laughed!

DH probably would have laughed at me while getting me ice. Hope your head is ok!

My husband always asks "Well, what did you do that for?" Not helpful

I'd say it's 50/50! Sometimes he's great, sometimes he laughs. I guess I do the same to him

Mine would just try to hide that he was laughing.

DH would laugh and probably shake his head since this is a common occurrence. I might have the occasional accident a bit too often. He would then come over and make sure I am ok while telling me to be careful.