So I never had the textbook "pushing". Just contractions and pressure and then she fell out. So can I expect this to happen with the next?
So I never had the textbook "pushing". Just contractions and pressure and then she fell out. So can I expect this to happen with the next?
kiwi / 687 posts
I don't know the answer but I do think you and your pelvis should teach a class. My pelvis and I would definitely sign up!
pear / 1547 posts
@yellowbird: Jealous times infinity. Pushed for 3 hrs! My eyeballs hurt afterwards...
honeydew / 7303 posts
@MenagerieMama: ohhhhh my gosh. did you have an epidural? I did and I was completely numb and couldn't feel a thing tip the very end, but i think it prevented me from doing a good job pushing.
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
I realize this post could come across as insensitive and I promise I'm not trying to sound like that!!! I honestly don't know what the heck my body or I did. I was crying in the water for like 7 hours (slight exaggeration) and then they checked and I was 9cm and I was about to get back in the tub but felt like I had to use the bathroom (#2) but couldn't so sat on a birthing stool so they could check for a head but felt pressure so I held a warm washcloth there because I didn't want to tear and then she fell out. So.... not sure if my body doesn't know how to push or what? I'm scared!!
pear / 1547 posts
@yellowbird: I did thank goodness! But I definitely felt a lot at the end with pushing. I was getting so exhausted they tried to have me rest every other but it was too agonizing for me to sit through one without pushing. I thought for sure they'd have to vacuum her out in the end. She just ended up being way bigger than we thought! Should have known since my husband, me, and my brother were all big babies.
@anonysquire: we're just all jealous!! Go you and your falling out babies much better than turning yourself inside out pushing!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@anonysquire: With my first, I had to push for an hour and with my second, I pushed for 10 minutes. So I suspect with your second, he'll just fly out!
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
@Adira: Not good haha!!! Well good, but maybe not that good. Knowing my luck, he will fall out while I am asleep.
honeydew / 7916 posts
@anonysquire: It's possible your body was really effective at moving her down while you were in labor! And it sounds like it wouldn't be surprising if the next time around things could happen pretty quickly too. I'd be prepared if I were you!
I pushed for 10 minutes and hardly felt anything thanks to a great epidural, but it never occurred to me to think of what would happen a next time around.
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
@spaniellove: I have heard it is harder to push with an epidural. So that is probably what happened in my case. But then maybe you should be worried too!!
coconut / 8861 posts
@anonysquire: I have a friend who didn't push her second baby out. She was on the hospital bed and heard crying. He just slipped out. Her first was a little longer labor.
I think I pushed for about an hour. My epidural was great, so pushing wasn't that bad.
coconut / 8861 posts
@anonysquire: She had a decent epidural going. Sometimes, you don't notice them with one. I missed a few bad ones because the drugs were good. It's possible that's what happened to her.
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
@cascademom: oh ok, I was like "I can't imagine not feeling those dang contractions"
pomelo / 5509 posts
@anonysquire: If you were crying a lot your body may have naturally been moving her down as you labored, and if you tried to go #2 but couldn't, you probably were pushing a bit while trying to go! It sounds like your body was kind of naturally pushing so you didn't do the traditional "guided pushing" if that makes sense? Every birth is different, so who knows for next time!
pomegranate / 3329 posts
I would expect your labor to be a bit faster, hopefully you won't have the "pleasure" of experiencing pushing I had black eyes with all three of mine because of the pushing. Worst part ever!!
pineapple / 12053 posts
@MenagerieMama: @StbHisMrs: wait, why did your eyeballs hurt?!
i pushed for 45 minutes, but it felt like 5. the pushing felt like the shortest part of my labor, probably because it felt good to go with what my body was doing!
pomegranate / 3329 posts
@birdofafeather: I don't think I labored down long enough, none of my epi's worked that well so I felt mass amounts of pain. Not laboring down long enough forced me to push way harder and longer than most second and third labors. It hurt to blink for the longest time!!
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
I seriously must have jinxed myself. Now I'm having cramping and small contractions.
I don't want my eyeballs to hurt lol. I'm so sorry so many have had rough pushing!!
bananas / 9357 posts
I would think it will happen again but probably even faster.
I pushed with my first for 45 minutes. It was sooooo much faster with my second. Like the contractions did most of the work and I just pushed a few times and she was out. At the end I could feel my body pushing her out and I wasn't even pushing! It was crazy and I got scared and panicked. Lol everyone had to calm me down.
pineapple / 12566 posts
@Adira: similar for me too! I pushed for one hour with LO1 and only 3 pushes for LO2!
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