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  1. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @PurplePumps: Oh gosh, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Let us know what happens, I'll be thinking about you nonstop.

  2. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @PurplePumps: sending every good thought i have your way today and hoping that you hear good news. i am so very sorry that you are having to deal with this.

  3. NorthStar

    pear / 1881 posts

    @PurplePumps: I am hoping that you get answers today and that it is good news. I'm sure you are so scared, but know that we are here for you. Whatever you need.

  4. TheHopingStar

    pea / 8 posts

    @Purplepumps - thinking about u and sending a little prayer you way!

  5. momazon

    kiwi / 613 posts

    @PurplePumps: I'm so sorry you're going through this. Nothing is more stressful. Hoping so hard that you get encouraging results today.

  6. PurplePumps

    pomegranate / 3809 posts

    Ultrasound confirms it, nothing there but more blood clots

  7. NorthStar

    pear / 1881 posts

    @PurplePumps: oh hun. I'm so devastated for you. I'm so, so sorry

  8. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @PurplePumps: I'm speechless. Just shocked. There is nothing anyone can say. I'm just so sorry, this isn't fair.

  9. momazon

    kiwi / 613 posts

    @PurplePumps: I'm so very sorry about the loss of your pregnancy. You've been through so much over the past few years and you don't deserve all these horrible events. Life is so unfair.

  10. bloved

    persimmon / 1114 posts

    @PurplePumps: I am so incredibly sorry. This whole process is so unfair.

  11. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @PurplePumps: so sorry

  12. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @PurplePumps: so incredibly sorry to see this update...i will be thinking of you

  13. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @PurplePumps: I am so sorry. This is heartbreaking.

  14. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @PurplePumps: This is so f@#$ing unfair. You've been through so much. I'm so sorry.

  15. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    @PurplePumps: Oh, I am so sorry! This is just heartbreaking! It's just not fair! I'm saying prayers for you!

  16. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @purplepumps just checking in and my heart aches for you. The world just makes no sense. Hugs to you and dh.

  17. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @PurplePumps: I am so sorry.

  18. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @MissKabers: Did you guys test yet?

  19. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @PurplePumps: You know we're all still thinking about you. I know you might want to take some time off, just know we'll be here when you're ready.

  20. PurplePumps

    pomegranate / 3809 posts

    @SweetiePie: Thanks hon. I'm just still so stunned and pissed off about it all. I've talked to my RE and we plan to do do another retrieval and then EFT test and see where we go from there with those results.

  21. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @PurplePumps: I imagine stunned and pissed are understatements. Does your RE have any theories at all?
    I am so impressed that you already have a plan to move forward. How long do you have to wait?

  22. PurplePumps

    pomegranate / 3809 posts

    @SweetiePie: He's hoping the EFT may reveal something. Other than that, I've done the whole RPL panel and immunology testing.... and all the other basics and everything is normal. I can start again as soon as my HCG is low enough... he's guessing by mid November.

  23. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @SweetiePie: we did - test was yesterday and we waited until last night to listen to the news together. Sadly, no popping bubbly this month. It was a tough night last night and I expect a rough few days. I think because we had done the testing and seen that sweet little "bubble", we really let ourselves get caught up in this month and the possibility of it all. Trying hard to stay positive - especially since we have 2 more waiting for us - but it's still a royal bummer (as all of you know) thanks for thinking of us!

    @PurplePumps: thinking of you! stunned & pissed - good ways to describe it. i am so sorry about all of this. i am happy you have a plan, i am hoping that helps you as you go through all of this

  24. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @MissKabers: I'm sorry, that just plain sucks. You always know it's a possibility but it never makes it easier to hear.
    You have some more PGD tested frosties, right? How long do you have to wait to do another transfer?

  25. momazon

    kiwi / 613 posts

    @MissKabers: I'm sorry about the BFN. :(. It's never easy, even if you have additional chances lined up on the horizon.

  26. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @SweetiePie: @momazon: thank you ladies! we are actually headed in for an apt with the RE tomorrow so we will hopefully know next steps then. gosh i hope we don't have to wait long - i thought for sure we'd be pregnant be the end of 2016 but time seems to be dwindling (though i also thought that for 2015, so not sure why i keep putting any kind of timeline on this!)

  27. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    Just checking in to send and hugs to everyone here. There's a lot of strength being tested right now it seems. Thinking of you all.

  28. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @purplepumps I have been thinking about you a lot and sending so much love and hugs. You are being so brave! I would be irate and so many other emotions...actually am for you! Find something fun to treat yourself--you deserve it!

    @misskabers ugh I so know that feeling...all too well. My heart goes out to you and dw. Glad you have some in the freezer but still, take time to be sad and grieve. It's so so hard.

  29. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    @PurplePumps: I can't even imagine! Stunned and pissed are just the tip of it I'm sure. It's amazing that you already have a plan to move forward. Take care of yourself over the next month! Sending you so much love and good thoughts!

    @MissKabers: I'm so sorry! Thinking of you and DW!

  30. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @Mrs. Pajamas: @Winnie13: thank you ladies! we actually met with the RE yesterday, so it helps to have new plan. (I love how at one point she said "well you could just take a month off, one month isn't that big of a deal" YES lady, YES it is - when we've been at this since early 2015, everyyyyyy month is a BIGGGGG DEAL)

    In the end, we will be moving forward with the same protocol as last month. we talked about doing a natural transfer cycle, but we have a long weekend away planned that would make that iffy, so we are going to do the hormones to ensure that we don't miss this month.

  31. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    Hey all we arrived to our new house yesterday after an in credible vacation in Italy. dd was such a great traveler and I was able to relax and keep the anxiety at bay until the last few days. I have my first ultrasound next Friday and can't wait! Hoping for the best but I've had bad news at 6 weeks before so I'm prepping myself.

    @winnie13 how'd it go?? Thinking of you....
    @misskabers omg absolutely! One month is an eternity! You'd think REs would get it. Good luck to you and enjoy the time off until next transfer with lots of wine!!

  32. momazon

    kiwi / 613 posts

    @MissKabers: A month off does sound like an eternity! Ugh!

  33. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    @Mrs. Pajamas: So glad you had such a wonderful time! Excited for your first u/s!! Ours went great! We got the wonderful news that we are expecting twins!!! I just sobbed hysterically! It was just so amazing to see those 2 little flickers of heartbeats on the screen!

  34. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    @MissKabers: So glad you have a plan! A month does seem like forever! Thinking of you both!

  35. momazon

    kiwi / 613 posts

    @Winnie13: Twins!!!!! Love it! So exciting!!!!!

  36. NorthStar

    pear / 1881 posts

    @Winnie13: oh my gosh! Twins! Congrats, lady! You deserve it! ❤

  37. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @Winnie13: Ack!!! Congratulations! Had you transferred exactly 2? How are you feeling? Has the excitement turned to shock yet? What wonderful news!

  38. Winnie13

    kiwi / 501 posts

    @momazon: @NorthStar: Thank you ladies!! We are over the moon and are just so thankful!! @yellowbeach: We transferred exactly 2! I was rooting for both, so I was just so excited! I'm still nervous and praying for these 2 sweet peas to grow! My next u/s is 11/2! Can't wait to see them again! I'm feeling ok. Nauseous and exhausted, but all things I will gladly endure for these blessings!

  39. MissKabers

    olive / 51 posts

    @Winnie13: YAYYYYY!! I am so darn excited for you! It must have been so amazing and such a relief to have that ultrasound!! Can't wait for your next update - when will you start seeing a regular OB instead of an RE?

  40. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @Winnie13: wow DOUBLE congrats! How exciting! More proof we shouldn't put too much weight in the darkness of a line
    Praying for you, friend!

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