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  1. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @Jess1483: @LAZB: @Boogs: @jaguar: @travelgirl1: @BabyBoecksMom: @winter_wonder: @Mama Bird: @YogiRunner: @twodoghouse: @LulaBee: @snowjewelz: @autumnleaves: @nana87: @Caly: @mediagirl: @MrsA: @Jackiedavis87: @FaithFertility: @MrsKoala: @MrsB2012: @gilmoregirl: @avivoca: @travellingbee: @Mrs. Sunshine: @tinyperson: @bluestriped bee: @Adira: @ValentineMommy: @youboots: @Jess1483: @Mrs. Pickle: @junebugsmama: @LBee: Thank you everyone for the prayers, hugs, kind words, advice and support. I truly appreciate this little community we are a part of. I just spent the day with my mom and DS getting pedicures, lunch and shopping...it was so good to see her smile.

  2. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @yoursilverlining: Thank you for all your advice. It's helpful to know what to expect with chemo. I am so glad to hear that your mom recovered.

  3. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @2PeasinaPod: As far as they know, it's stage 2 but they are still waiting on more PET scans. They are going to find out more on Monday. So glad to hear your mom is well. Thank you!

  4. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @catlady: I am so so sorry to hear about your mom. I really appreciate your advice. Hugs.

  5. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @simplyfelicity: I'm so sorry to read this. Lifting you and your mom up in prayer.

  6. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @dc yoga bee: You aren't rambling and I am so sorry you are going through this right now. I am absolutely praying for you and your family. Please keep us updated. Many, many hugs.

  7. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @tinyperson: Oh wow. I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family.

  8. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @mediagirl: I absolutely agree with you. My friend's father has prostate cancer and his doctors have been dragging their feet because they said it's a "slow cancer." Luckily,he just got into Stanford. I really appreciate that my mom's doctors are really on top of it.

  9. Tidybee

    nectarine / 2834 posts

    Oh no - this is terrible news. I'm sorry to hear this and I'll be thinking of you.

  10. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

  11. Ginabean3

    pomegranate / 3401 posts

    Sending you and your mom lots of !!!!!

  12. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    lots of positive thoughts and strength to you

  13. lovehoneybee

    GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts

  14. Reese

    pomegranate / 3521 posts

    @simplyfelicity: ❤❤❤❤❤❤️ Here for you. My father beat cancer last year, it is SO hard to see a loved one, especially a parent go through this. It looks like she is in good hands, thinking of you guys!

  15. PeaceLily

    apricot / 360 posts

    I'm so sorry you are going through this. My mother has unfortunately dealt with cancer as well. My mother is a breast cancer survivor and had a double masectomy almost 15 years ago. She was diagnosed last year with a different kind of rare cancer and underwent intense chemo and radiation. She is thankfully in remission now.

    My advice is to stay supportive and optimistic. Your mom needs optimism around her right now. Also it helps to try to go on with life throughout this process. Your mom will be going through tough treatment and she won't always feel her best, but I know my mom didn't want to be treated different during this and like we couldn't discuss normal everyday things with her. She will get through this with love and support from her family, it makes all the difference.

  16. oliviaoblivia

    pineapple / 12793 posts

    Wishing her the best!
    Hugs mama.

  17. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    @simplyfelicity: I'm so sorry to read this! I'd be so scared too. Hopefully it was caught early and hopefully your mom has a good recovery! Sending you hugs

  18. krispi

    clementine / 911 posts

    So sorry to hear this!

    My MIL is in the middle of a successful battle with breast cancer. They found hers during her routine annual mammogram. She also was originally going to have a lumpectomy along with the lymph nodes, but after finding out that hers is a pretty aggressive type, she made the decision to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction.

    She found out in March. They did her operation in May and removed her lymph nodes then. Thank goodness her cancer had not spread! Because it's an aggressive cancer, they are doing 4 rounds of chemo just to be safe. She's about half way through the chemo now and then will complete the reconstruction when she's done.

    Because hers is more precautionary, the doctors are thankfully spreading her chemo out every 3 weeks. She feels bad for about a week or so afterward, but that does allow her some time to recuperate between sessions. She's even started to venture out on her own a little and drive herself around on her good days. My husband has taken her to chemo, and he says it's a lot of sitting around waiting for the IVs to drip into her port. She said that it takes a couple of days afterward to feel bad, and that it feels like her bones are hurting afterward, because they are trying to generate bone marrow growth. She has some strong pain medicine and she takes it easy during that time. She did shave her head because her hair started to fall out. I'm thankful that my BIL and his wife live with her so she has someone to watch out for her.

    Sorry for the book! But I thought it might be helpful to share her experience. Cancer is always a scary diagnosis, but thankfully they've come a long way in the treatments that are available.

  19. 808love

    pomelo / 5866 posts

    Praying for your family.

  20. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    Thinking of you and your mum

  21. islarey

    pea / 23 posts

    So sorry to hear this. She is blessed to have you for love and support. Keep thinking positive thoughts.

  22. Mrs. Pickles

    kiwi / 584 posts

    @simplyfelicity: sending you lots of

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