Hello, everyone...
I am very new to HelloBee, and as most women in the TWW, I am becoming very impatient!

I'm looking for a little encouragement and advice, especially since this is my very first tww.

I am 34 years old. Married for 1 year 4 months. DH and I were going to wait until next month to start TTC, however a trip to Paris at the end of August caused a sooner BD than we had expected! Since I have not yet officially tracked my cycles, I can only assume from mild observation - my cycles seem to be approximately 25-28 days in length. I feel I ovulate early (based on EWCM and ovulation cramping) anywhere from days 9-11 of my cycles. I have never been on BC (besides a couple of months in college, but it never agreed with me, so I never used again).

I always spot a few days before my periods every cycle, but from what I have read, I should only count my cycle from start of full flow (please correct me, if I'm wrong). Based on start of full flow, here is where I am:

CD1 - CD4 (full flow): August 25-August 28
CD6 - CD7: BD multiple times (sorry, tmi)
CD9 - CD10: I believed I started ovulation, based on abundant, heavy EWCM and typical ovulation cramping
CD12 - CD15: Extreme fatigue and hunger (sleeping twice a day - I NEVER nap, eating 2nd helpings of everything- which I NEVER do).
CD16 - CD21 (today): mild, low abdominal cramping - constant
CD18 - CD21 (today): breasts full, and becoming increasingly tender (today, the thought of a bra is frightening).

I've had consistent CM, but nothing heavy or discolored. I have never had the fatigue, cramping or breast tenderness I have now (usually I'll have these symptoms a couple days before AF, but never, ever to this degree). I had a BFN today, which I know is too soon to test, but I couldn't help it.

I know you all have probably heard all of this a million times, but in honesty, I already feel better just getting it all out on here! Thank you in advance for listening, and for any advice you have! DH and I will be continuing to try if this turns out to be negative. I bought an OPK just in case. Any TWW advice or advice based on my post would be helpful. THANK YOU!