DH has always wanted to name a daughter after his Grandmother. They were very close and she had Alzheimer's when she passed away. Her name was Lillian, which I really loved. Well, my sister had a daughter 2 years ago and named her Lilly. DH was a little heartbroken, because obviously the names are way to close. However, if we do have a girl, do you think it's strange if we use Lillian as a middle name? I think since it's obviously due to a connection it's not a big deal, I just don't want people to think we've lost our marbles. We were thinking Violet Lillian.