So, I don't know how else to word the title, but here is an example of what I'm talking about and I would really appreciate hearing how some of you deal with situations like this:

You "I asked you to do x, y, z." or "When you talk to me it makes me feel like a, b, c".

Them "Well, I guess I'm just a piece of shit then" or "I guess I just suck at everything then".

How do you respond to them. I have a couple people in my life who do this all.the.time. People I'm very close with. I don't know how to respond.