Does anyone have any recommendations for small band/huge cup nursing bras?? Particularly any wireless bras for the early days postpartum? I can find a few underwire bras in my size that I plan on trying, but seem to be at least a cup size larger than any of the wireless options. I'm still open to trying those that are one cup size too small, but I'm pessimistic about dumping $$ on them if they're already too small before my milk ever comes in.

I consider myself fairly well educated on bra fitting, but am at a loss as to where to go when no one seems to sell my size! Unfortunately that also means I have little tolerance for ill-fitting bras I'm a stickler for a tight band (don't worry, I know to ensure breast tissue is not being compressed to avoid clogged ducts). I read /abrathatfits on Reddit but have not found much help there (nursing bras are not their specialty).

I'm going to throw out a LOT of info in hopes anyone can use it to provide good advice:

I'm currently wearing a Fantasie Rebecca 30GG(UK)/30J(US) at 7 months pregnant. Pre-pregnancy I was wearing a Panache Envy 30FF(UK)/30H(US). Already up 2 cup sizes. Bottom- and center-full.

1st Pregnancy: Started out with a VS 32DDD (but also had little clue how a bra was supposed to fit then so may have been the wrong size), eventually settled out to a Freya Pure 30G while nursing (though I was probably larger before my supply regulated). So went up at least 2-3 cup sizes. I started off with Bravado S++ bras, which have been discontinued and weren't very supportive anyway. Post-nursing I wore Panache Envy 30FF (absolutely loved these, but don't seem to fit my shape as well since I've been pregnant ).

I generally need a size 30 band in most brands. I know about sister sizing and sometimes can make a size 32 work, but when I have to start on the tightest hooks, the band stretches out and becomes unsupportive too quickly. I hate having to replace a $60-70+ bra within a month or two. If you know from experience that a particular brand runs small in the band, I'd love to hear about it (even if it's on my "please don't recommend" list below)!

Please do not recommend (this list is so long I want to cry):
- Cake (Only makes one underwire bra in my size (Waffles). I plan on trying it anyway even though I'm already at their largest cup size)
- Bravado (Currently own a 32J/K Essentials Embrace which is their smallest band/largest cup combo. I already have to wear it on the tightest hook and the cup is a little too small.)
- Hotmilk
- Coobie
- Le Mystere
- Natori
- Cosabella
- Chantelle
- Wacoal
- Elomi
- Felina
- La Leche League
- Anything from Motherhood or A Pea In The Pod

Bras already on my radar to try (Any experience here on sizing for these particular bras?):
- Cake Waffles 30J
- Freya Pure 30GG (I wore this almost exclusively in 30G last time around. Doesn't give me a great shape, but if it gets the job done then so be it.)
- Panache Sophie 30GG (Cautiously optimistic about this one. Wireless and my favorite pre-pregnancy bra was a Panache.)
- Panache Eleanor 30GG
- Kindred Bravely Simply Sublime in Small-Busty or Medium-Busty (technically should be slightly too small, but crossing my fingers)
- Anita Fleur 30J
- Royce Charlotte 30GG

I know about converting a regular bra to a nursing bra (though I've yet to try it), but soft cup bras in my size are almost exclusively sports bras. Aka very restrictive on large breasts, which is good for high-impact workouts but doesn't sound great for nursing. If you have a rec for a soft cup bra with a more natural fit, I'm all ears!

Any great lingerie boutiques I should know about in the DMV area? My luck with in-person bra fittings has been hit or miss (I've been to Nordstrom and Bra La La).

Any Etsy shops or the like that make unusual bra sizes?

Anything else I may have missed???? (And thank you so much for taking the time to read through all of this brain dump!)