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Our baby - trisomy 18

  1. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    my heart stopped when I saw this. I am so very, very sorry about this devastating news. lots of love to you.

  2. Pancakes

    nectarine / 2180 posts

    I wish I had adequate words to express how heartbroken I am for your family. You have been through so much. Sending to you and your husband and your darling girl.

  3. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    This is devastating. I'm beyond sorry to hear this, but know that a lot of and thoughts are coming your way.

  4. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    @MaryM: i am so sorry. There are just no words that adequately express. I am thinking of you

  5. littlecasita1122

    persimmon / 1026 posts

    I'm so sorry to hear this and am thinking of you and your family. I hope you both are getting the support you need. Frances Ruth is such a beautiful name - I love it.

  6. Baby Boy Mom

    pomegranate / 3983 posts

    I'm so sorry you're going through this. You will be in my thoughts.

  7. Tanjowen

    nectarine / 2521 posts

    I am so very sorry.

  8. Mrs. Sunshine

    hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts

    Oh, I am so so sorry. You and your husband and your sweet sweet little Frances are in my prayers. My heart breaks.

  9. JenGirl

    clementine / 756 posts

    I'm so so sorry. I thimk Frances is a beautiful name. I'll pray for her and you and your husband.

  10. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    My heart broke when I saw this thread and your name show up. I'm so so so sorry. It's so unfair. I'm so mad for you, so heart breaking. Sending much love to you and Frances 💗

  11. mrschickpea

    clementine / 928 posts

    I'm so so sorry. Frances is so loved and I am sending many hugs your way mama

  12. sorrycharlie

    hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts

    I am so so sorry

  13. Mrs. Tiger

    blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts

    Oh no. I am so, so, sorry. Life just isn't fair

  14. justjules

    apricot / 488 posts

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to understand but I mourn with you

  15. magnolia

    persimmon / 1168 posts

    I'm so sorry.

  16. NorthStar

    pear / 1881 posts

    I've been thinking of you since your first post on our board. I am unbelievable heartbroken for you after everything that you have been through. Sending lots of love

  17. auggiefrog

    kiwi / 631 posts

    I'm so sorry. You guys have been through too much. It's just not fair.

  18. PinkElephant

    grapefruit / 4584 posts

    I'm so sad to hear this. I hope you find some answers (if you decide you want them - I understand the complicated emotions behind deciding how much information is too much...). I'll be keeping your family in my thoughts!

  19. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    The baby's heart was still beating (although slowly) today, so no update yet. My OB will be back from vacation Monday do we'll follow up with him.

    We won't TFMR, so I guess we just wait it out for now.

  20. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    I am so so sorry. You have been through so much and my heart is broken for you.

  21. MrsA

    apricot / 444 posts

    @MaryM: thinking of you so much and sending love to you and your family.

  22. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    Thinking of you Mary.

  23. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    @MaryM: I'm so very, very sorry. You and your family and of course beautiful Frances are in my prayers :

  24. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    Thank you.

    We announced on Facebook today. Not exactly what we'd planned...

    Next follow up is tomorrow at the end of the day. My OB is letting me come in after he's done for the day so I don't have to wait in a crowded waiting room.

  25. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @MaryM: Im glad your OB is so respectful. Lots of love to you. x

  26. pastemoo

    cantaloupe / 6146 posts

    I'm so sorry. Beautiful name for your baby girl.

  27. erinpye

    pomegranate / 3706 posts

    Oh sweet mama, I'm very sorry for your suffering. Praying for you and your beautiful Frances Ruth. Wishing you some small possible amount of comfort during this difficult time.

  28. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    I am so sorry. My heart sank when I saw this thread and who it was written by. Sending lots of love to you and sweet Francis Ruth

  29. rockinghorse

    cherry / 215 posts

    sending prayers

  30. bloved

    persimmon / 1114 posts

    @MaryM: I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am not sure what kind of support you have found, but we had very good friends get a similar diagnosis and make the same decision as you. They have subsequently started a non-profit to support people who get difficult prenatal diagnosis. Here is the website in case it
    Has any information or resources you might find helpful: http://www.joansreach.org.

    Thinking of you and wishing you so much strength.

  31. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    Thinking of you and sending lots of love and prayers ❤

  32. T.H.O.U.

    wonderful clementine / 24134 posts

    @MaryM: I hope it goes well with your OB. Prayers for peace for you guys.

  33. MrsBrewer

    coconut / 8854 posts

    @MaryM: ❤️ I'm so sorry... You and your family are in my prayers.

  34. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    @bloved: thank you. Depending on what we see tomorrow, the hospice link could be helpful.

  35. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @MaryM: I'm so sorry to hear about this. My best friend delivered a full term baby girl with trisomy 18 in 2007. My thoughts are with you.

  36. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    So very sorry, big hugs!

  37. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    Oh my goodness, my heart just dropped reading the title of your post. I'm so sorry. You have been through so much. Thinking of you and your DH and your sweet baby

  38. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    @MaryM: Will be thinking of you

  39. littlebug

    honeydew / 7504 posts

    @MaryM: My heart is just aching for you and your family. Sending you lots of love and hugs today.

  40. josina

    pomegranate / 3973 posts

    @MaryM: Sending lots of virtual hugs!

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