As a second time mom when were you noticeably pregnant? I went back to pre preg weight and shape and even though I'm only 5 weeks I look 16 weeks pregnant. With my first I was pregnant looking to strangers around 16 wks. I can suck in some of it so I know it's bloat but really?? How am I going to keep this a secret for 8 more wks?!

When were you really showing second time around?