If you live in a suburb of NYC, or in NYC and travel to the suburbs, how do you get in and out of the city with baby? I'm visiting family in NJ and considering going into the city for lunch, but trying to wrap my head around logistics. Can I take an UB Vista on NJ Transit in the middle of the day (not rush hour)? Is it a huge pain? If we went, I'd have people meet me near Penn Station, and my parents' house is close to an NJ Transit station. I could also do carrier but I feel like I'll want to have the basket of the stroller. I'd leave the carseat in the car and use the regular UBV seat. Would they make me take her out of the stroller and fold it up?

I can't believe I'm stressed or confused by this-- I live in a city, and I grew up outside NYC and lived there for 5 years, but none of that time was with a baby!