I know this has come up before, but I can't find a recent post (unless I'm just searching for the wrong thing).

I'm not happy with my OB. They seem perfectly competent, and I have no real complaints about them medically, but I feel very much like a number. I drive 15 minutes there, wait for 10-15 to be called back, spend <5 minutes with a nurse (BP and protein check), wait 15-20 minutes for the OB to come in, and she's (well, one of 5 OBs) is there for less than 5 minutes.

I've asked questions (about like medications) and I feel like my questions have been just blown over (basically the answer was "unless it's Tylenol don't risk it, or go ask your PCP")

I wanted to stick with them because they are adjacent to the hospital I want to deliver at, but I really don't feel at ease with any of them I've met so far. I feel like I'm just taking up time in their schedule. But I just learned there's another OB practice a floor below theirs that includes midwives. I had a midwife with my last pregnancy, and I think I was spoiled by them (they knew us, seemed generally interested and excited by our pregnancy, etc).

Would you consider changing for these (mostly superficial, I think?) reasons? I'll be 19 weeks on Thursday.