I'm tired and I can't think of a better way to word the question. I don't mean nursing during sex obviously but having sex during the months you were BFing.

Even though I worked very closely with my OB I was not able to have sex with DH postpartum until I daytime weaned LO1 at 13 months. I had scar tissue removed, tried estrogen treatments, used ridiculous amounts of lube but nothing seemed to make a noticeable difference. It was a really hard time for DH and he is not on board for that again... neither am I.

Wondering if I should expect the same with LO2.