A big problem I am having when trying to nurse is keeping my baby's hands away from his face/mouth. He is also very squirmy, but the firmer I hold him, the more upset he gets. Any suggestions for a good hold that keeps baby's hands and body in check? I usually do the cross cradle hold with one hand on his head and one on my boob to be sure it stays in his mouth, the nipple shield doesn't fall off, some hand expression, etc. I have tried the football hold, but have not been very successful.
I also use my breast friend sometimes, but I also try to do some nursing without it because i won't always have MBF with me.