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I did and it was wonderful. I went to the one where we delivered from about 3w-7mos pp and I met two of my best mom friends there!

I'm feeling so defeated with BFing that I'm not sure it would help. I don't need more people to see DD cry at my boobs.

@MrsH: You should go! That's what they're there for. I know the women at the support group near me have seen it all, and they're super knowledgeable.

Just once. It was better than I expected - I was very nervous that I would be made to feel bad about my low supply & supplementing with formula. We didn't go back just because it was a long drive & ultimately it wasn't THAT helpful. I felt like it was more of a social thing than breastfeeding focused, which was fine, but just not a huge motivator for me to drive 45 minutes each way with a newborn.

I did, and it was one of the best things I did to help me with bfing. I didn't go until my daughter was 10 weeks, and I really wish I had gone in the early days when there were so many small questions that I really could have used other mommas' advice on. The best part about my group was the listserv that I still use today to ask/answer random questions.

I went once. It was helpful in terms if forcing myself to get out of the house and go somewhere at a certain time, and getting used to nursing somewhere other than home, for sure. We didn't really have any major issues, but I actually ended up feeling more stressed than I was before, but I think that's just me. I'm glad I went and would have gone more if it was more convenient though.

Yes, I attended Le Leche League meetings regularly with both DD and DS. Attended my first when DD was 5 weeks old and I was on my way to quitting (she BF until 15m). I continued to go when I wasn't pregnant and continue to go now even though DS is weaned I'm fairly sure we are done having kids.

No bc DS wasn't breastfeeding until he was 6 weeks old. I had to pump and bottle feed him since he was so small.

@MrsH: I felt the SAME way, but it helped so much! Seriously!! Going the first time is the hardest part. Even though, ultimately I ended up being an EPer, having that extra help and support when I was in the first stages was invaluable.

I did.....but the minute I revealed that I was supplementing the facilitator jumped down my throat. She was like, "WHY are you supplementing, you need to get her OFF that formula". I was in tears! I managed to squeak out "well, she was in the NICU and the Dr. advised me to supplement with 2 oz a day...." She was like, "you need to find a new doctor."

Needless to say, I never went back. I get that it's a breastfeeding group. I was just trying to be honest to give them my whole story/background to sort of explain WHY I needed breastfeeding support......

@Ginabean3: that's horrible!!!! My group was nothing like that---at all. It was run by an LC at the hospital, but she was really sweet and supportive of everyone doing whatever they needed. Obviously, she was there to offer us support, look at our latches (if we wanted), do weighted feeds, give advice----but she also would say that the reality of life is that different things work for different people.

What a shame that she made you feel so unwelcome.

@Ginabean3: Wow. I'd be livid. I'm sorry you had that experience.

I didn't after DS because he was always an excellent breast feeder and we had no issues. I wouldn't hesitate to go though with this upcoming baby if things don't go swimmingly. I've only heard good things about our local BFing support group.

Yes, and I wish I'd gone sooner/more often!

Yep, 3 times a week during my maternity leave! It helped me get through six weeks of horrible pain and I loved finding out how much LO weighed!

Yes, I went to a drop-in breastfeeding clinic run by my LC and her colleagues (all LCs and doulas). I cried there a number of times. And I honestly went every week for the first nine weeks of DD's life. It saved our BFing relationship and it was so helpful to be surrounded by other mums and babies who were facing the same struggles. It was seriously like a big, warm hug every week.

Yep! I went even though I didnt have major issues. It was good to hear what other women were going through that had little ones ahead of me and to hear what was normal.

@MrsH: There are so many people to identify with. It really is so helpful!

I help run one. However, my biggest support was attending Breast Feeding USA meetings. I was intimidated at La Leche League meetings, but BFUSA seems to be more supportive of all Moms who are breastfeeding. Regardless if it's full time or not. They all seem to say "breastfeeding doesn't have to be all or nothing" and I think that's a much better thought process than what I see at LLL which is more, "everyone must breast feed!"

I went every week during the first 12-16 weeks, then sporadically after that. It was free, extremely helpful, and I got to meet a lot if really nice moms that way. Mine was at a hospital and run by 2 lactation consultants and a nurse who helped with weighing the babies before and after feeds.

When I heard of it, I thought it would be a group of moms sitti g in a circle, talking about their difficulties, asking questions, etc. the way this particular group was run, there were a bunch of tables in a big room. You put your stuff down, stripped your baby to his/her diaper, then had the baby weighed. Then you went and nursed. Most women did not use any sort of cover, which really surprised me at first, but soon was very comfortable. The lactation consultants circled around and met with each woman individually - checked latch, position/hold, and answered questions. While waiting for my turn, I'd chat with other moms sitting at my table. After each side, the baby would be weighed to see how much milk the baby had taken in. They kept a log sheet and tracked each baby's weight from week to week.

Everyone was very supportive.... even when LO was screaming/crying/on a nursing strike.... and even (or especially) when I was the one crying!

Yes! Our hospital has a lactation club. I've been twice and I love it!