I still feel guilty that my baby had to start daycare when she was only 12 weeks old. It just felt so wrong, she was so young and and fragile to be left with "strangers". I always thought the ideal situation would be to take my child to the daycare when they were old enough to understand that I wasnt abandoning them and that I would be back by the end of the day.

Anyway today a new kid started at the daycare, I guess he must be around 18th months since he was in her side of the building although he looked atleast 2 and half. But anyway he was screaming for his mom as soon as they pulled into the parking lot. His dad had to carry him over his shoulder and he was screaming terribly. And his mom pulled away in her car. It was very emotional for them. I'm sure after a few hours he will calm down and play with the other kids but it was pretty tense in the morning, because he was screaming at the top of his lungs. It made me think maybe it is better to start them when they are infants rather than waiting til they are older. What do you think is the ideal age for a child to start daycare