I worked from home all summer while our nanny watched our baby and now that school is starting, I am having a *very* difficult time letting go of the decision-making. Right now, I have the nanny consult me on everything--from when he naps to when he eats etc. How did you let go when you went back to work? Today, one of my last days at home, I noticed the nanny was kind of pushing my seven month old to finish his container of sweet potatoes (he just started solids). I wanted to tell her that she shouldn't do this, but I am not sure she would take this level of micromanagement all that well. Ugh. This is hard. What level of intervention is appropriate in this relationship?