Quick synopsis: TTC for over a yr no success

Started seeing a RE, got diagnosis weak ovulation, rarely got my period/ovulated

Tried 4 IUI in about 10 month time span: #1 cancled to many egg. #2 successful, but lost chemical, #3 successful but lost chemical #4 unsuccessful

Started testing to find out more info: found a bacteria that can cause m/c got on antibiotics, and baby aspirin

During that time of blood test and waiting on results DH and I took a cruise, I was no meds other then baby aspirin, came home 2 weeks later I tested and well....... we got our miracle baby!

When I told people our story many said things like: I knew you just had to relax, or see you were trying to hard, or see and you wasted all that money

I'm sorry did they forget we TTC for almost 3 yrs, that's not normal

I'm my heart I think this road looking back made us closer as a couple and I think it helped us work out a few kinks in my health. .....I always had hope that it would "just happen" why else would I test!?!

Just So funny how people that have no clue, still have no clue.....

Just wanted to share because I'm sure I am not the only one!