Hi ladies, need recommendations from anyone with a similar figure!

I'm 36 weeks, pre-pregnancy bra size was a 30C, right now I'm a 32DD. I got the Bravado silk seamless nursing bra in size S and hate it--it's riding up on the smallest band setting, I dislike the cup inserts, and feel like I'm wearing a sports bra and badly miss my underwire. Everyone seems to love this bra; should I just get used to it, or is there something better out there? My problem with bras always is that my band size is really small, but my boobs are medium sized and wide-set.

Money is no object here, I would be happy to deplete my IRA for a bra that doesn't drive me crazy for the next year.