Anyone have experience with being brushed off constantly by health care professionals?

After exhausting all of my efforts and being brushed off by hospital staff, midwives, home nurses, and just today our paediatrician (who told me to 'just try and put up with the pain and get to 6 months) ... I've booked a private consultant.

Only thing is, Claire will be 7.5 weeks by the time we see this IBCLC (and tie specialist) .. and I'm scared that **if** she needs it, the procedure will hurt a tonne more for her because she's older now and not in that newborn phase.

Can anyone give me any experience or advice? x