So I would be 8 weeks tomorrow, and last night before bed I had some red blood when I wiped and cramps. That continued overnight. Still bleeding this AM. Is this it? Ugh I'm going to call the OB first thing when they open.
I mean do I still go to work? I have a pretty easy desk job. An I think I will be able to hold it together empitionally.
Is there any hope left? I just don't know what to think. I never thought it would be me.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
I think many women here can share positive outcomes of bleeding during pregnancy. I would just try to get into your OB first thing and go from there. I sat at my desk once when miscarrying and it was not a fun day
papaya / 10560 posts
I bled extremely heavily with my first pregnancy. We'll never know if it was an SCH or twin m/c but I have a precious 4 year old now. Not all bleeding means m/c, def call! My ob put me in prometrium to help stop the bleeding.
coconut / 8854 posts
@matador84: when you bled, did you have cramping as well? It feels like a period honestly.
coconut / 8854 posts
@winniebee: I'm thinking physically, it might be easier at work vs at home chasing after a 17 month old.
papaya / 10560 posts
@MrsBrewer: yes. And I passed a lot of tissue--it was honestly the scariest moment of my life. I went to the ER because there was so much blood and I was at work. I had just found out I was pregnant 3 days prior and was 11, almost 12 weeks.
coconut / 8854 posts
@matador84: wow that sounds so scary. I'm so glad you had a positive outcome though!
coconut / 8854 posts
So probably TMI. But I just passed a huge clump, probably the size of a baseball, and I looked in the toilet and I saw a small raspberry size lighter colored ball. I have a feeling I miscarried for sure just now.
pomelo / 5326 posts
Thinking of you and hope you have a positive outcome. I've had it go both ways before,however, with my DD I bled quite heavily a few different times in the first trimester. Best wishes. 
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
I bled with this pregnancy a few times between 6-7 weeks, some brown and some red. It really freaked me out because I never bled with my other 3 pregnancies, including my missed miscarriage. I went in for a scan and saw a healthy heartbeat and the OB said there was a small bleed. I'm now 12 weeks. Hang in there and I would try to get in for an ultrasound or at least talk to your OB
coconut / 8854 posts
@delight: thank you for the kind thoughts!
@lilteacherbee: I'm trying to stay positive
apricot / 431 posts
I bled (gushes) from 7 - 8 weeks with my daughter. I didn't have cramping though. I will be thinking of you and I hope you have the best possible outcome
nectarine / 2317 posts
@MrsBrewer: I would go get an ultrasound. Also don't go to work. Call in sick. I was at work for my first MC and it was awful and I couldn't focus on work.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
I bled with both girls, it was so scary. Get checked out as soon as you can.
pear / 1717 posts
@MrsBrewer: Praying for you! I would not go to work. Emotionally it may be a lot to deal with until you have an actual answer. Please keep us updated.
coconut / 8854 posts
Just got a call from the office, and I'll be going in today. Having horrible cramps. I decided to go into work, that way my DD is at the babysitters already, and I dont have to bring her along to the appt.
nectarine / 2951 posts
@MrsBrewer: I'm sorry, bleeding is scary. I bled a lot during my most recent pregnancy. Like gushes... And even tissue. I was convinced it was a miscarriage and I was so scared. I ended up being diagnosed with a placenta previa. Baby was healthy and even my previa resolved itself by @34 weeks. Ironically, I never bled with either of my two miscarriages...
coconut / 8854 posts
@Alba4: I had that with my first pregnancy, and it resolved itself also. by 30 or so weeks, but I never had bleeding with it. maybe it's something like that. I'm just planning for the worst.
nectarine / 2951 posts
@MrsBrewer: Supposedly previas are more common if you've had one in a previous pregnancy. I hope you get good news. Hang in there!
coconut / 8854 posts
@Alba4: I didn't know that. Interesting....Did you pass clots also or was it just blood?
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
I didn't bleed my first 2 pregnancies but I have had frequent bleeding this pregnancy (an IVF baby). I bled from 10 weeks to 16 weeks on and off - not super heavy a gush every few days and spotting for a few days. The docs could never find the source of the bleeding. I had heavy bleeding with clots again around 25 weeks for 2 days and again the source couldn't be found but baby and placenta were fine and unaffected. Hoping for good news for you too
pomegranate / 3658 posts
Just wanted to say I'm so sorry you are going through this. I think there are a lot of stories of both sides of this experience, so I really hope for the best for you.
I miscarried at 6 weeks and it just felt like a period.
coconut / 8854 posts
Update: I went in for an ultrasound at 10:30 this morning, and confirm that I miscarried. 
There is only a small amount left, and I should be done passing everything in the next 24/48 hours. I had a gut feeling this morning that I knew what was happening, I was just being hopeful. Thankfully DH met me at the Dr, and was there with me. I let out a few good cries, and I'm still grieving, but at least I know physically the worst is over with...hopefully.
Thank you everyone for the kind thoughts and prayers, I truly appreciate it. I know that miscarriages are common, I guess I was just naive, and never thought I would be that statistic. But here I am. I'm so thankful to be in a community filled with so much love and support though. So again, truly, thank you ladies.
grapefruit / 4988 posts
@MrsBrewer: Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs and hope you heal soon.
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