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A weekend away from parenting?

  1. Sapphiresun

    nectarine / 2220 posts

    I work outside the home, and my husband works 6 out of every 8 weekends, so I would find once a month kind of excessive, and I don't think I'd want to "waste" all our potential family weekends hanging out by ourselves. But he once took LO to visit his parents for a few nights midweek and having a few days to not parent on top of working all day was heavenly.

  2. bushelandapeck

    pomelo / 5720 posts

    Not once a month, but I have been away by myself once since having two kiddos and have another momcation planned for next weekend (I can't wait!). We don't have anyone to watch the kids overnight aside from each other so this would be the only way it would really work for us to have time away. I wouldn't want to do it more than once or twice a year though.

  3. brownepiano

    persimmon / 1467 posts

    A weekend away every few months sounds amazing! Every month I think would be too much to coordinate. But as a SAHM I see way too much of my kid and never get to sleep in.

  4. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    We have no parents near by so it would be impossible, logistically, to do this. Although now that I'm pregnant with #2 I insisted to DH we should each take a weekend away before she arrives and we're screwed

  5. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    So basically they have 2 weekends a month together as a family and then the other one solo parents 1 weekend? I mean, the thought of sleeping a lot and getting away sounds nice but not every month. I guess cause I WOH so I cherish weekend time. Plus our weekends are packed so it would be impossible to get anything done around the house if I or my spouse was gone every other weekend.

  6. Autumnmama79

    pear / 1703 posts

    I agree with most posters in that its seems like a lot of lost family time - but of course, to each their own. Whatever it takes for a family to manage and for the parents to meet their needs! They are likely better rested than I

  7. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    I would like a night away every few months. Not a whole weekend. But, an overnight so that I could just relax in the evening and then sleep in the morning. But, I would want that with my husband....not alone. And once a month would be a bit much! My DH wouldn't be a fan because he gets so little time with the boys (I work, but just 3 days, I have 4 days at home with the kiddos).

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