My parents spend a decent amount on each grandkid for the holidays, and they let me do the shopping so that's kind of nice! They aren't up to date on toys so it takes the stress off them. They get gifts from DH's parents and then from 3 aunts/uncles. Then usually $20 for their bank accounts from great grandparents which is such an awesome gift! So they get pretty spoiled from others. It's a good thing we don't buy many toys throughout the year!