I have a 4yr old bonus son. I came into his life right around the time he started eating all solids. I have never cooked all of us 2 separate meals. At times I may alter his, take a portion out before adding something spicy to it, so that it's more kid friendly, but I've never made him mac n cheese while we had something else. My sister on the other hand always cooks 2 different things every night. I'm wondering if I'm the odd ball.