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So sorry for your loss and that you're having such a hard time. Do you have someone you can talk to about it? Hubby, friend,, family member, maybe try counseling?

What helped me after I miscarried was to find some sort of closure. I'm Jewish, and instead of flowers we put rocks on graves. So I found a rock that I love and wrote a message to my baby on the bottom of it. It's in my front yard, where I can see it daily and remember.

There are other things you can do too, like make a box and put things in it that remind you of your baby.

I feel like you have to take your time to grieve, and still the pain never completely goes away. I now have a healthy 4 month old and I'm still dreading the anniversary of the first due date that never came. It's still hard. But as they say, easier every day.

Hope you start feeling better soon!

Aw hunnie Im so sorry you're struggling so much. Please know the emotions you're feeling are completely understandable and is a natural part of the grieving process. Miscarriage is so tough on women because it feels like you're failing at something even though it is entirely out of your hands. Come here to vent/talk whenever you need. We are all here to support one another!

I know first hand how much this sucks. You may just not be ready to get off the couch and even if somewhere in there you want to, sometimes it doesn't mean you should.

After my second miscarriage I really had some severe depression. I reached out to my 2 closest friends, filled them in on what was going on and we had a girls weekend. They cried with me, laughed with me, drank to much with me, and spent to much money pampering ourselves, but it was the best medicine a girl could ask for. Plus it let them know how much pain I was really in and how much support I needed. One became my gym partner and the other (out of state) started calling and texting more. It was a life saver.

what helped me was to just take a day where i just cried my heart out. and read lots and lots of other people's stories. hope you feel better! hard to hear, but it will get better with time.

I'm so sorry that you are feeling down! I hope that you have time to heal and vent out all that you need to emotionally. Good luck in your future journey and good juju for you!