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Is it normal for your family to have alcohol at all family gatherings?

  1. Synchronicity

    grapefruit / 4089 posts

    On my side, always. Even a quick drop in usually involves a beer. DH's side we will have a drink with dinner but nothing really besides that.

  2. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    Totally normal. I mean, if it is a meal time other than breakfast. And even if it is breakfast, if it is a holiday, you can expect to be offered a mimosa.

  3. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    Not necessarily at my parents because my dad is a recovering alcoholic. (Although my mom still drinks) but at my brother's yes. And all holidays there is generally wine.

  4. IRunForFun

    pomelo / 5509 posts

    I don't know if I'd say it's free flowing but with both families there's usually beer/wine available if someone wants it.

  5. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    There's usually beers for the men, but honestly no half of my family aren't big drinkers. Christmas there may be some wine or champagne. I like wine and the occasional beer but it's not odd to have family get togethers sans alcohol

  6. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    No. My parents never drink. I have only seen MIL and SIL have a drink once and we were on vacation at the beach.

  7. MrsB2012

    nectarine / 2466 posts

    Yes. My uncles co own a u brew, so there's always wine and beer at our gatherings.

  8. dolphin

    pomegranate / 3768 posts

    Yes! Beer, wine, whiskey...

  9. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    Yes, completely normal for us on both sides to have beer and/or wine, not really hard alcohol.

  10. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    Yup! Beer and wine is always available. Liquor comes out for celebrations like bdays, even if it's the kiddo's bday. lol

  11. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    Our parents are all big wine drinkers. rarely tipsy at all (I saw my mom drunk like once growing up) but they're all very much social drinkers

  12. babypugs

    persimmon / 1101 posts

    Only if we are the hosts.

  13. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    If someone's not drinking, they're obviously pregnant. My family's motto.

  14. ValentineMommy

    pomelo / 5791 posts

    At kid things (bday parties, etc), no. Everything else, yes.

  15. Littlebit7

    nectarine / 2243 posts

    yes! although its funny, my DH and I have been together for 15 years. His parents were pretty conservative at the start and alcohol was rarely around unless we were drinking it. I remember my MIL watering down sangria I made with an entire 2L bottle of sprite (after I had already assembled the low alcohol sangria). Anyway, fast forward 15 years later, several moves around the world, grandkids, retirement, health events.....BOOM they are the first ones to get the wine out at 4:01 pm on a tuesday. It has been hilarious to watch. They have also become more liberal (forget even mentioning gay rights 15 years ago... now...hey why not who cares. Love is love!!! ok well not quite but we are getting there with them).

  16. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    On my side there is always beer or wine. On my husband's side, we have to buy wine since my ILs rarely drink, but my BILs always have beer and wine on hand.

  17. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    More for DH's family than my family, which is why I think we disagree on this topic for our own parties.

  18. myopinion

    apple seed / 1 posts

    Absolutely never. Its frowned upon. If someone showed up wih alcohol they would be the only one and would be getting weird looks. Even someone in their early 20s wouldnt dare...they have friends they do that with. Family and alcohol doesnt mix to me. Most dont drink at all. I personally drink once or twice a year but only date night with my husband.

  19. Alba4

    nectarine / 2951 posts

    On my side of the family, yes. On my husband's side, not really. My ILs don't drink, so we usually BYO. My SIL does drink though.

  20. 2littlepumpkins

    grapefruit / 4455 posts

    WIth my dh's side it might, might not. With my side, absolutely yes. My side can be a lot of fun but they can also sort of be obnoxious at times.

  21. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    Always

  22. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    @Boogs: Same here. My family hardly drinks (well, my dad is another story), but in general we don't need or expect alcohol. My sister might have some beer in her garage if anyone wants one.

    DH's family always has beer and liquor in their house and they always offer it. I think it would be weird to them if they didn't have something like beer in the house.

  23. SugarMaple

    cherry / 202 posts

    Very common. Expected if hosting a holiday.

  24. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    My side - yes, for fun. My inlaws - yes, it's called survival.

  25. annem1990

    apricot / 444 posts

    My family? Always. No one goes crazy, but when together we always have a cocktail hour. Then usually beer or wine with dinner, or some sort of "fancy" cocktail when at a restaurant.

    DH's family? Nope. His parents rarely drink, so no one really drinks around each other; even at holidays. No one has a problem with it or anything, it's just not the norm. Sooooo opposite my family.

  26. Meowkers

    persimmon / 1364 posts

    My family is Russian so yes there is always alcohol at every family gathering. No one gets drunk (ever) but pretty much everyone partakes. We almost always have beer, wine, vodka, and cognac available.

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