I was having a discussion with a friend about whether it's okay to flirt at work when Everyone knows you're married.

In my relationship we are very honest with eachother and know what's going on. For example my husband is a nurse and works with all women. Clearly there's flirting going on (I mean I know my man is irrisitable ) but it doesn't bother me because we have an open conversation about it.

I on the other hand have a HARMLESS (as in I would never even date this guy because he's more like a brother) work husband. We simply laugh at out stupid jokes and my husband knows him and knows its beyond harmless.

I know it's common to have a work husband and work wives. I was wondering what your take on it is. Do you flirt? Is it okay to flirt when others know your married.

Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person because honestly we both know that cheating is not worth breaking everything we've worked on building all these years.