What would you do? Let your LO fuss and yell, thus ruining your partner's lie in? Or get LO up, rendering them grotty and overtired for the rest of the day.

This is my dilemma right now. E was up at 6 this morning and was so tired by 8.30am so I tried for a nap. She started yelling and jumping up and down in her cot (standard!) so I got her back up quickly so as not to wake DH. The hour that followed was horrific - whining, tantrums, falling over into things...... Its now 9.30am and I have just put her back down..... and she's fighting it some more. She needs to sleep so much but the only way she will get there is if I leave her there so settle herself and that's going to be noisy!

I feel awful for DH though. He let me sleep in until 10.30am yesterday - but DD went down for her morning nap with no fuss at 8.30 and slept for two hours! That's unheard of!!

Am I being a total beast letting her ruin his lie in??