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I only have one, but what saved me was a set routine and quick meals. We got up at the same time, walked the dog at the same time, and when we got home we had our routine as well.

@regberadaisy: I can't really tell you yet since #2 is only due in Jan but I'll be solo parenting 2 Mo-Th.
Here my plan though: I imagine that I'll do quick meals just like we are doing now (LO gets a full warm lunch at daycare) and while #2 is small she'll be in the bouncer a lot while I tend to her big brother. Once she'll be somewhat on a bedtime routine as well I'll just prep them one after the other and then get them to bed after each other while combining somethings like bedtime stories.
But you know how they say: The best laid plans go to waste, so... we'll see.

@regberadaisy: It totally helps that your plan sounds a lot like mine! I guess the new baby will not be center of the universe as much as the older was (and we're not FTM anymore!) - so maybe that will lead to more structure. I guess that we'll revisit this thread in 6-9 months though and laugh at us for how naive we were

I don't solo parent on a regular basis but occasionally I do and your plans are on target with what I do. I feel bad but the baby spends more time in bouncy seat or swing then DS ever did. We do back to back baths with older DS playing with toys while baby is in bath and then baby in bouncy seat in bathroom while older DS is in bath (can't wait until they take a bath together) then baby chills in bouncy seat in DS's room while we do bedtime routine and then I nurse baby and put him down. It's definitely tough and I'm glad I don't do it all the time but once you get into a routine I'm sure it will go smooth

ETA older DS just turned 2 and baby is 3 mos.

I actually just did this for the first time on Wednesday night!! Wagon Sr. just started a class so he doesn't get home til almost 10pm on Wednesdays this semester. Here was my schedule.

4pm: leave work
5:15pm: arrive at daycare for pickup
5:40pm: arrive at home, start cooking dinner while kids play (luckily their aunt came over to distract them while I cooked... pan fried frozen dumplings and got rice out of the rice cooker)
6:00pm: dinner. While the kids ate, I unpacked their daycare bags and packed their lunches for the next day
6:20pm: run upstairs to run LMW's bath, lay out their clothes, prep their rooms for bedtime
6:30pm: LMW upstairs for bath and bedtime. WJ stayed downstairs and played, but I suppose I could have bathed them together and had him play in his room while I put LMW down
6:45pm: WJ upstairs for shower and bedtime. This was the toughest step-- he has been making excuses lately like "I don't know how to fall asleep"... haha
7:15pm: clean up the kitchen, grab a bite to eat

Done!!

It was EXHAUSTING! After putting LMW down I had to lie down for a second!

ETA: I was able to actually prepare dinner because my kids are older (4.5 and 2) and I had help to distract them so they weren't bugging me while cooking! Otherwise I would have left work a little earlier to pick something up, or heated up leftovers.