I don't know what took me so long to find this site, but I am so happy I did! We've been TTC for almost 3 years now. We tried on our own for a while, then went through 3 rounds of IUI, with Clomid and trigger shots, and had no luck. After being mentally and emotionally drained, we decided to take a break. That was a year ago. We still were TTC on our own but just playing the every 2 day game to cover our bases and not really focus too much on it. With no luck, we have now made our way back to IUI land and had our first one this morning. The doctor said he is willing to try a few cycles again before we take to IVF route, because everything checks out normal in both of us. It's so hard to remain positive, and to not feel like there must be something we are doing wrong. Reading everyone's stories this morning has been so helpful, and I am just looking for all the support I can find right now!