DH and I are discussing our ideal trips and we have very different wants.

For the same price, would you rather....

1) Stay in a very modest condo, close to the beach (10 minute walk to beach and 5 minute walk to shops and local dining) and do all your own cooking in the room. Have a rental car, so be able to explore, go on day trips, hiking, sightsee, shopping, etc. Nearby beach is amazing and perfect for snorkeling. A place like hawaii (Maui). (Would be able to eat some local food, too. Not ALL meals in room.)

2) stay in an all-inclusive resort (place like Mexico, puerto vallarta). You would have just a room instead of a whole condo, but all meals would be provided for you, as well as unlimited drinks. No freedom to really travel about on your own, limited to just resort. Hotel is on the water, but water is kind of murky (but amazing pools make up for it).

ETA: you could book day trips through resort but would be pretty spendy and blow budget.

No kids. Which is more your style?