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  1. Synchronicity

    grapefruit / 4089 posts

    He is 3 months older

  2. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    3 years, but my husband is not American, so he usually has no idea about pop culture stuff.

  3. ms.line

    pear / 1770 posts

    @marionberry: Wow, you're the first one to beat me in this thread! In the immortal words of Aaliyah, age ain't nothing but a number.

  4. marionberry

    pomelo / 5041 posts

    @ms.line: Thanks! And I doubt anyone will beat me, lol.

  5. Ginabean3

    pomegranate / 3401 posts

    He is 18 months over but he might as well be 20 years older.....he likes stuff from the older generation.....

  6. twodoghouse

    honeydew / 7230 posts

    I'm 9 days older!

  7. Mrs.KMM

    grapefruit / 4355 posts

    DH is 50 weeks older than me. So for 2 weeks a year, we're the same age!

  8. littlevillage

    pea / 9 posts

    He's 7 years older.

  9. mrs. wagon

    blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts

    12 days younger!

  10. tysonja

    nectarine / 2217 posts

    DH is 3 years younger.... I feel like he will NEVER turn 30... ahhh.... (he'll be 30 next year, finally!)

  11. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    He's 6 1/2 years older than me, for the most part we get the same references but every once in awhile I look at him like WTH when talking about something Music & TV shows are where we usually differ.

  12. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    We were born in the same year but DH is older. I like to point this fact out a lot

  13. MrsADS

    nectarine / 2262 posts

    @Ms.Line @Marionberry DH is 13 years older than me so I am in the club with you!! It is a total non issue for us and always has been. I'm 28 and he is 41 - he looks a lot younger and he is very energetic, always on the go and up for anything (more so than me, even) - so I don't really feel like I'm with someone who is older! His dad is the same way, he is 72 and you would never guess it. He is busy and active and I think it keeps him young.

    We are expecting baby #1. Sometimes I worry a little about down the road - like when I am late 50s and he's 70 - that seems like that's when the age difference might "feel" bigger. But, we love each other and we are committed so I think we'll be okay. He knows he has to take good care of himself so he'll be around for me

  14. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    I'm the older one by 3 yrs and 2 months...

    This thread is cementing the trend I have noticed - women in the US seem to marry men who are the same age or older than them, whereas most of my friends/acquaintances overseas are in relationships where the woman is the older one! Just my experience, but it is a very strong trend I have noticed in my day to day interactions....

  15. WinterBee

    persimmon / 1071 posts

    @mrbee: DH is a few months shy of being 4 years older than me. It's not a noticeable age gap at all.

  16. lilteacherbee

    cantaloupe / 6791 posts

    He is 9 months older.

  17. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    DH is 4 months older.

  18. rachiecakes

    coconut / 8279 posts

    16 years

  19. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    He's 9 months older.

  20. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    I'm 16 months older than DH

  21. sera_87

    pomegranate / 3604 posts

    He's five years younger.

  22. Finfan

    persimmon / 1436 posts

    He's 6 weeks older than I am.

  23. Charm54

    cantaloupe / 6885 posts

    2 years, 2 months, 2 days!

  24. Mrs. Tiger

    blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts

    @mrs. wagon: 11 days younger! Those 11 days are always super annoying

  25. namaste

    persimmon / 1313 posts

    He's almost 2 years older.

  26. Keybee

    kiwi / 735 posts

    DH is 7 months older then I.

  27. MamaG

    pomelo / 5298 posts

    I'm older by 2 years.

  28. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    DH is five months older than me but graduated high school the year before me.

  29. Cchoi4

    kiwi / 729 posts

    He is two years older.

  30. erinpye

    pomegranate / 3706 posts

    DH is 1 year older.

  31. 808love

    pomelo / 5866 posts

    I'm a bit older than LO but he knows all the same stuff because he had an older brother. We had the same group of adult friends that had a span of ages so we all kinda relate the same.

  32. Pumuckl

    pomegranate / 3601 posts

    I am 7 months older (such a cougar I know )

  33. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    @Ree723: Haha, I am the older one in my relationship, I'm an American married to a European.

    I think age and age difference is more a "thing" with Americans for some reason. I don't know why.

  34. ms.line

    pear / 1770 posts

    @MrsADS: Agreed, our age difference isn't much of an issue, either. My husband takes pretty good care of himself - most people think we're the same age! (Which I'm always mildly insulted by.) I am a bit concerned about our future with kids - we're struggling with IF and don't even have one yet - he will probably be in his late 40s if/when have #2. Both he and I had parents who died young, and I'm really sensitive to the fact that I want him to be around for our children as long as possible!

  35. Mamaof2

    squash / 13208 posts

    DH is 10 yrs older

  36. Harmonica

    apple seed / 1 posts

    My husband is 8-9 years younger than me, depending on time of year. I found out recently he had no idea who Wilson Philips is! Funny things like that come up all the time and make me feel so old!

  37. kayakgirl73

    clementine / 750 posts

    8 months. He was born in January and I was born in August of the same year. It's kind of neat, we both graduated high school and college in the same years.

    But we didn't meet until we were in our mid 30's.

  38. Chillybear

    pomegranate / 3032 posts

    @Torchwood: @mrs. wagon: @Mrs. Tiger: Gotcha beat! I'm 2 days older than my husband.... and it definitely factored into how we ended up dating

  39. whenoceansrise

    nectarine / 2053 posts

    I'm almost a year older than DH!

  40. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    DH is 4 days older, lol

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