DS is almost 11 months old and we are struggling to get him to feed himself or be able to finish a sippy cup or bottle without help holding (OT evaluation this Thursday). We had an epiphany when we realized he just gets too stiff when he eats. For instance he will hold a mum mum but he have a hard time guiding his hands to his mouth. Same with a bottle/sippy.. he can't seem to relax his shoulders enough to lift to get the very last bit. Any one else experience this??

ETA: He has no problem getting toys or hands into his mouth... just food.