I've had one miscarriage at 12 weeks and one chemical pregnancy.... I just took a pregnancy test and got a BFP!! Exciting BUT I'm not getting my hopes too up since I've had the miscarriage. I'm hoping this one sticks!! For those that have had miscarriages, has your view on pregnancy changed? I know mine has-- I'm a lot more skeptical. 
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I think miscarriages can seriously change you forever! We have two healthy kids now, and yet I'm still waiting for the other shoe to drop with bad news of some kind.
I'm hoping this feeling wears off when the kids are a bit older...
ps Super excited for your BFP!
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Congrats and best wishes for a successful pregnancy this time!
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woohoo congratulations! third time was our lucky charm and hope it's yours too!
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We miscarried in August, and I agree with how one book phrased it. It said that when you miscarry you lose the innocense of pregnancy. You're never so absolutely excited because there's always a "What if" in the back of your mind.
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Congrats! Sending sticky baby dust your way...
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congrats! hoping for a sticky baby! i agree with skeptical. after mc last year, with this pregnancy, every ultrasound/doctor's appointment i've had, i dreaded. it's only now at 15 weeks, i'm starting to get excited about my next appointment. but still apprehensive.
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Congratulations! I hope that this pregnancy is everything you want and hope for it to be.
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THANK YOU! I'm hoping it sticks too..
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Yay!! CONGRATS! I hope this is a sticky baby!
I agree with others who say that having a miscarriage changes your view of pregnancy permanently. I had a miscarriage in May at 5 weeks and even though it was early, I was devastated. I'm almost 9 weeks with this pregnancy and can't believe that my pregnancy is real or that something bad isn't going to happen. I am so excited about the pregnancy and can't help but get into it, but also am nervous about every appointment, every twinge, every feeling of wetness down there, etc. My sister just found out she's pregnant with #3 and is due a month after me and after thinking yay! congratulations!, my second thought was - what if I miscarry again? How will I deal with her pregnancy? What will I do? Awful, I know.
Eventually, I think it will get better for me (maybe after 12 weeks?) but right now I'm still pretty nervous.
Good luck : )
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Yay for the BFP! I hope you have a sticky baby in there this time!! I can't imagine having a miscarriage at 12 weeks- right when you're ready to tell everyone.
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I had a miscarriage years ago at about 8 weeks. I was completely devestated. When i finally got pregnant with Jovani i worried about a miscarriage, down syndrome, every little thing. If i wouldnt feel him kick for the whole day at work, i was right on the phone w/ the OBGYN. When you have a miscarriage, it is traumatizing so when you do finally get pregnant you just want everything to be right. I hope everything goes good for you ladies!
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Congratulations on your BFP!!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and hope this one turns into a take-home baby!
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congrats! sending good vibes
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Congrats!!
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Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! Wishing you a healthy and happy 9 months
I had one MC at 7 weeks and another at 5 weeks and even though they were both early they've definitely changed my whole mindset on pregnancy. I definitely look at it less overall optimistic but always cautiously optimistic.
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Thank you, thank you, thank you everyone! I know! Every time I go to the bathroom to wipe (sorry TMI), I'm always afraid that I will spot or see blood. That's how both miscarriages have started... so paranoid. So far, I feel twinges on my side and I took another pregnancy test today and after 2 seconds, the double lines showed up. LOL!
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