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  1. lil owl

    apricot / 345 posts

    I also went to see my mom's GP. She couldn't believe it and even before I asked she told me to see someone else. I hope I can see an ob that works part time in her practice, but as she works part time she wasn't in today. She will be there on Monday and the GP will talk to her so that she will see me. I hope that works out.

  2. lil owl

    apricot / 345 posts

    Thank you all for your support!! It really means a lot to me. I don't know if I could have been strong without you all!!!

  3. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    @lil owl: I'm so glad to hear that you are pregnant! Will you be able to see a different OB? There is no way I would be able to trust her at all after this.

  4. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @lil owl: Such great news! Thank goodness you trusted your gut!

  5. cait

    apricot / 268 posts

    @lil owl: Yay!! I am so happy for you. Please let us know how things go on Monday!

  6. Mrs. J

    pomelo / 5132 posts

    @lil owl: I'm so happy for the good news! Hope everything goes well on Monday!!! How far along does the scan say you are? Does it line up with what you thought?

  7. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    This is AWESOME! And like others have said, thank goodness you trusted your gut. I really hope you can get a new OB, I would not trust your old one.

  8. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    @lil owl: congratulations!!!!!

  9. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    congrats! i'm really sorry for the rough start your OB put you through. her behavior on this has been pretty horrible. i agree with switching, and hope you find someone fabulous who guides you through a happy and healthy 9 months!

  10. lil owl

    apricot / 345 posts

    @Mrs. J: it still makes me mad that she told me neither the # of the last blood test nor how far along I am. I asked. She simply ignored me. I had to make another appointment (on the 22) but I won't go. I hope I have a better ob till then...

  11. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @lil owl: I'm so mad at her for you!! What a ... I can't even find the right word!!! Where's the really angry emoji?!

  12. Eko

    nectarine / 2148 posts

    @lil owl: That's really exciting!! Congraulations! I'm glad that you have found some resolution and it's the good kind! I hope you are able to find a new OB, because it sounds like 9 months of them will be no fun. Thinking of you.

  13. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    @lil owl: So glad things are still going well, despite your moron OB! It makes me so angry! Definitely good for you for looking for someone else. Is there anywhere online you can leave reviews for this OB or anything? And/or a supervisor of hers that you can talk to? There should be repercussions for her treating you so horribly!

  14. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    I hope you can see a new dr soon!!! FX!

  15. Kimberlybee

    grapefruit / 4997 posts

    @lil owl: Congratulations on the good news and good call on trusting your maternal instincts! Good luck and hope you can find a new OB ASAP. I would question the level of care I am getting since she sounds like she has awful bedside manners!

  16. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    I've been following along though I haven't commented yet...Congrats on your pregnancy! And wtf is the deal with that doctor? Just unacceptable, sorry you've had to go through that

  17. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    Hooray! And definitely get thee to a different doctor! Wishing you a H&H 9mos!

  18. MrsMccarthy

    honeydew / 7295 posts

    @lil owl: love this update! Have a beautiful healthy pregnancy!

    i want to smack your OB upside the head though. I hope you plan to report her somewhere and give her low grades on sites. She's horrible and I wonder how many healthy pregnancies she has jeapordized or worse in this way.

  19. 78h2o

    grapefruit / 4441 posts

    @lil owl: I am really confused why your OB is so hell bent on something being wrong with you or the pregnancy not being viable? You had red bleeding, that's it...correct? It is not really all that uncommon for people to have red bleeding and still have a successful pregnancy. I had red spotting and things have gone well so far otherwise (14 weeks). A friend of mine had gushing red blood early on and still had a successful pregnancy... in her case, they do believe she lost one twin. I could understand being concerned and saying something like, "we will have to wait and see," but pushing a D&C, withholding information about your labs, and insisting that something is wrong, is just ridiculous. I hope you will be able to find a new doc ASAP. Have you let your MW know how the appointment went today? I hope someone can see you very soon. What were you able to see on the u/s? Could you see the sack? Fetal pole? It might still be early yet for the fetal pole...

  20. Purpledaisy

    nectarine / 2973 posts

    Congrats!! I've been following along but haven't commented. I'm so glad that everything is looking ok! I would ditch that OB though. You should not have had to deal with all of that.

  21. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    @lil owl: Congratulations and I agree with PPs about finding someone who you can lodge a complaint with. None of these interactions have been appropriate or professional.

  22. Pumuckl

    pomegranate / 3601 posts

    @lil owl: yay for the good news! Hope the parttime OB works out for you. Fingers tightly crossed! Alles Gute!!!

  23. lil owl

    apricot / 345 posts

    Just a quick update: I went to see the other ob today, and she's ok. Maybe a bit cold but friendly enough.

    I have to go again tomorrow for blood.
    She did an ultrasound and told me my dates line up perfectly I'm 6 weeks 6 days. It seems to be a completely normal pregnancy.

    I will continue seeing her.

    Thanks so much for all of your support!!!



  24. Mrs. Jump Rope

    blogger / coconut / 8306 posts

    @lil owl: another good update! Glad you're doing well.

  25. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @lil owl: Great news!! I would definitely keep seeing this new Ob. Who cares if she's a bit cold! She's not there to be your BFF, just a really good doctor and it seems like she's got that under control!

  26. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    @lil owl: What a great update! So happy you listened to your gut!

  27. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    such wonderful news! thanks for the update!

  28. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    @lil owl: That is wonderful news and a beautiful ultrasound!

  29. Pumuckl

    pomegranate / 3601 posts

    @lil owl: yay, so glad all is well and that you feel better with the new OB! And cute pic!

  30. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @lil owl: This is such a happy update. I cannot believe your previous OB.

  31. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    Wow I'm so happy for you (and so pissed at your first OB who would have ended a healthy pregnancy!) She should lose her license for malpractice!

  32. hellobeeboston

    honeydew / 7235 posts

    Great update! Congrats!

  33. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    @lil owl: Fabulous news!!

  34. fairy

    persimmon / 1343 posts

    I am so glad you stuck to your guns and didn't get the d&c! So wonderful to hear everything is going well, though I would have trouble trusting that OB anymore.

  35. cait

    apricot / 268 posts

    @lil owl: Yay!! Might be strange to say since I don't actually know you, but I've been thinking of you and hoping you were doing well!

  36. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    @lil owl: great news!! Grow, baby grow!

  37. turquoisemama

    persimmon / 1481 posts

    Amazing! Thank God you didn't listen to your original doctor! Congrats!!

  38. Kimberlybee

    grapefruit / 4997 posts

    @lil owl: Hope you are doing well. Been thinking of you!

  39. lil owl

    apricot / 345 posts

    @Kimberlybee: Thank you so much! I'm so sorry for not responding sooner!

    First of: baby is still there. Kicking like crazy.
    But: four times I bled severely, once I even lost parts of the placenta. I had on and off light bleeding. And the last few weeks I've been having painful contractions. My cervix shortened and the ob is scared I could deliver any day now (I'm 33 weeks)
    oh, and I'm suffering from HG again
    All the meds are making me so sleepy and I feel like my brain is not working properly. I'm sorry if none of this makes any sense...

  40. jh524

    pear / 1632 posts

    @lil owl: I don't know you but I just said a prayer for you and your unborn child. Xoxo
    I hope everything turns out okay for you and that baby!!!!

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